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Tahnya is a Certified Financial Planner and former Investment Advisor turned marketing and communications professional She holds a degree from Concordia University, is debt free and currently works in the field of digital marketing.

Your joint credit card: A gift or a curse?

joint credit card, couples finances, joint finances

Paying Cash

Good morning Dinks.  This past weekend Nick and I were shopping for household items and when we got to the checkout we had to decide how we were going to pay for our purchases. We could pay debit, credit or cash for our purchases.  We had to decide if we were going to use our joint bank account or our joint credit card to pay for our purchases.

Until recently Nick and I kept separate bank accounts and to tell you the truth we opened a joint bank account but we don’t actually use it.  We opened the account because I felt a couple who has been together for 15 years should have a joint bank account; but we were already so set in our ways that neither one of us wanted to change how we banked.  Needless to say whenever we go shopping together it never occurs to us to pay with money from our joint account.

Is a joint account only for household expenses?

How do you and your spouse decide what purchases you make from a joint account?  Maybe your joint account is a bank account or maybe it’s a credit card, Nick and I now have both.  We have always had a joint credit card and now we also have a joint bank account.  I would like to know how other couples do it.  Who pays for what in your relationship and how do you decide whether to use your joint bank account, joint credit card or pay cash?

Joint account for joint use?

I personally think that a joint bank account should be used for joint expenses such as monthly house expenses like groceries or furniture or a fun couple’s expense like a couple’s vacation.  Nick and I each pay for everything equally and usually with our debit card.

Sometimes we use our joint credit card for major purchases such as our new TV (remember my week of bad money luck?) but usually we just pay for expenses with our own money from our individual accounts.  We don’t necessarily split each bill right down the middle, but we do end up contributing equally at the end of the month.  What types of purchases do you and your spouse charge on your joint credit card or pay from a joint bank account?

The problem with joint account

My only credit card is the joint credit card that I have with Nick.  This makes it very hard to surprise him with any gifts unless I pay cash for purchases from my own bank account.  There are certain types of purchases that require a credit card.

I recently wanted to surprise Nick with two tickets to an NBA game, you probably remember that he is a huge sports fan.  I called Ticketmaster from my office and charged the purchase on our credit card.  I didn’t know if Nick had used the card recently and therefore I didn’t think he would be watching the transactions on our joint credit card.  Well I was wrong.  He knew about the tickets even before I received them in the mail.  Eliminating the element of surprise is a major disadvantage to having a joint credit card.

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Weekly Roundup: New babies and comedy shows

Stage

Happy Friday Dinks.  I hope you had a great week.  Tomorrow I am going to a stand up comedy show with my friends from work.  Have you ever been to one?  It’s going to be my first.  I am excited and the best part, tickets were only $45 – that’s not a bad way to spend a Saturday evening.

I like watching romantic comedy movies and I really loved the comedy movie 21 Jump Street.  However with other types of comedies I sometimes just don’t get the humor.  I hope the jokes don’t go over my head tomorrow night…I’ll let you know.

Have a great weekend Dinks.  Enjoy these posts from our personal finance friends.

Free From Broke – What are your property taxes paying for?

Mr. Money Mustache – The true cost of commuting

Blonde & Balanced – Money lessons from The Good Wife

Girls Just Wanna Have Funds – I’m a collection agent.  Here’s how you get rid of me

Budgets Are Sexy – Introducing J. Nickle

Save Up – Blogger Interview: Todd Tresidder of Financial Mentor

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From owning to renting with Eric from Personal Profitability

owning to renting, purchasing a property, renting a property, real estate

New Home

Good morning Dinks.  Today we have a special guest joining us.  Eric from Personal Profitability was kind enough to chat with us and answer all our questions about buying a home and living with his finance.  By the time you read this Eric will be married so please drop him a line to congratulate him on his nuptials and welcome him to the world of Dinks.  This is the story of how Eric and his wife started a conversation about money before they moved in together.

Why did you decide to buy instead of continue to rent?

Before meeting my wife, I had finished my MBA and was living in a one bedroom apartment by the university. I house hunted for six months before I found the condo that would soon become my home. I found a two bedroom in a great neighborhood on the edge of downtown.

I ran the numbers and found that, living with a roommate, my monthly cost would actually be lower than my apartment, so as far as cash flow goes, it was a no-brainer to buy over continue to rent. Because of the neighborhood, the condo value just kept climbing and climbing, so it was a great financial decision all around.

When did you move in together and were you both renting or owning before?

I was living in the condo mentioned above in downtown Denver, and my fiancé lived in a house she was renting a couple of miles away. After dating about a year, we decided it was time to move in when her lease ended.  We made the big move in February 2013.

How do you divide your monthly housing expenses? 

When we moved in together, at first we were splitting everything down the middle 50/50. We calculated the cost of the mortgage payment, HOA, and utilities and split the cost down the middle. We didn’t keep tabs on grocery costs or other incidentals and just paid as it was convenient as costs came along.

Why are you now renting?

We actually just recently went back to renting an apartment, but it is not a forever decision. I had a great career and life opportunity that took us to Portland, Oregon. We have been here renting an apartment since December and our condo in Denver is up for sale.

We have not decided whether we want to stay in the rental or buy at the end of the lease, but we have six months to decide.  Right now, we are leaning toward buying a real house with a yard (we are in a rental condo right now) for the dogs, potential future kids, and to have a little more space for our new family.

What was the best thing about owning your own home and what will you miss about renting when you buy another home? 

Now that I have rented, owned, and rented again, my favorite thing about owning is that I can do whatever I want with the space. In the condo, I upgraded the floors, toilets and closets to make the place more comfortable. However, I didn’t love paying plumbers and dealing with the hassles (and expensive costs) of unexpected repairs that landlords have to handle when you are renting. I also love not having a landlord when owning, but I have only owned with an HOA, so there was still an overlord watching. If we buy a house later this year or next year, we will be landlord and HOA free!

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How does gold protect against fiat currency?

gold investment, investing in gold, safety investment, investment portfolio

Gold Coins

(The following is a guest contribution from GoldPrice.com)

Fiat currency, since its first use in China roughly a millennium ago, has been inherently unreliable. Since fiat money has no intrinsic value or practical use, its value has to be specified or declared by a third party; namely, a country’s governing authorities.

Thus currencies like the dollar, yen and euro are unstable because of being vulnerable to the fiscal and monetary policies of the government that issues them.

Their value is also prone to fluctuate as a result of inflation or deflation, based on the broader health of a country’s economy. So in short, wealth that is established in the form of fiat currency can evaporate without ever being spent or lost.

This is where gold can provide a certain amount of protection and financial security.

The Difference in Gold

The value of gold is found in a number of other factors that prevent it from being considered a fiat currency. First, it can’t be printed. The supply is therefore limited, protecting it from inflation and changes in an economy’s money supply.

This gives it intrinsic monetary value that isn’t easily manipulated by third parties or outside economic influences.

Secondly gold can have cultural and numismatic value, which are factors that generally can’t be applied to fiat currencies.

Finally, gold is also used in a number of electronic and medical devices, building materials and a number of other industries, giving it the added benefit of having practical use in its most basic form.

Wealth Insurance

Because of these attributes, gold has long been considered a form of insurance against inflation and other financial disasters for wealth that is primarily (or entirely) made up of fiat currency. Thus people will buy gold at a certain spot price, keeping it either in their personal possession or in a banking institution as a means of converting their wealth from a volatile fiat currency to a reliable commodity.

What makes gold even more beneficial is that its market value tends to increase as fiat currencies decrease.

For example, when the value of the dollar begins to drop and financial institutions of the United States begin to weaken, speculation drives the price of gold up. This means that if you buy gold as insurance for your money, its value is likely to be much higher during most scenarios where you would have to use it.

The Ideal Safety Net

This makes gold one of the best ways to provide financial security and an ideal safety net for those who have most of their assets in the form of a volatile and unreliable currency.

As governments and their currencies ride the roller coaster of changing economic fortunes, gold, as all precious metals, will retain its own intrinsic value. It will always be the one reliable commodity in an ever-evolving economic landscape.

– GoldPrice.com is the #1 resource for gold market pricing. –

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You bought what on your credit card?!

credit card purchase, buying a car, handling finances

Car

Good morning Dinks. Yesterday morning I was listening to the radio while I was taking my shower, this is rare for me because I actually hate listening to the radio.  I prefer to listen to CDs or my iPod because I know it’s music I like and its commercial free.  That’s probably an over share but anyways now you know I was in the shower.

Would you buy a car on your credit card?

I heard a commercial for a car dealership advertising a summer sale on their entire lot.  The ad said to come on down and buy a new car for a really low price and they accept all major credit cards.  At first I wasn’t sure if I heard it right but the second time I heard the commercial I know it was true – this car dealership accepts all major credit cards.  I immediately thought to myself who would pay for a car on their credit card.  There are several purchases that I would make on my credit card, but a car is not one of them.

A car is a lot of debt

There are a couple of problems that I have with paying for a brand new car with a credit card.  First off, the interest rate on a credit card is extremely high.  I couldn’t imagine having a $17,000 debt at 18% – been there done that.  I have never paid for a car on my credit card but I have racked up several thousand of dollars in debt at a high interest rate and it’s not fun.  I wouldn’t want to go down that road again.

Secondly, a lot of car dealerships offer low or 0% interest rate on financing which is a much better option than paying interest rates in the late teens or twenties.  The cost of borrowing on a car should be as low as possible since it’s a depreciating asset.  I am the first one to say that a car is a good purchase because it’s something we use daily and it’s convenient. But I don’t want to pay a high interest rate on the purchase.

These are three purchases that I will always make on my credit card:

Hotel room booking.  As you know I love to travel.  I chose a credit card that gives me travel perks such as free upgrades and access to airport lounges.  My American Express Gold Card gives me extra points on travel expenses such as hotels and airplane tickets.  Instead of earning 1 point for every $1 spent I earn 4 points for every $1 that I can redeem later for more travel.

My next airplane ticket.  Credit cards also give extra travel insurance perks such as trip cancellation and delay or baggage insurance as well as out of country medical insurance.  This can save on the costs of having to purchase additional insurance coverage when travelling abroad.

The next night out on the town.  Some credit cards allow cardholders to earn extra cash back on restaurant purchases.  I like using my credit card for dining out at restaurants because I earn extra rewards.  It’s a small purchase that I can afford to pay off each month and it helps keep my credit score in good standing.

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Friday Faves: NYC, Gold and Credit Cards

NYC Central Park

Happy Friday Dinks.

I’m back from NYC and I had a blast.  We had great weather and I spent a day in Central Park, I even got a sun tan.  Every time I get home from vacation I get really depressed for a week, whenever I get home from NYC it’s even longer.   Oh boy do I love that city.

Enjoy these great posts to start your weekend.

Financial Samurai – What’s Huring My Credit Score And Why Is It Fluctuating So Much?

Enemy of Debt – Is Investing in Gold A Good Retirement Strategy?

Wealth Pilgrim – Is My Annuity Safe?

Sprout Wealth – Why Credit Cards Are Not Evil

Cash Money Life – Personal Finance: Doing What Works for You

Save Up – My Money, Your Money, Our Money.

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3 ways tenants can protect themselves

landlord, tenants, protections for tenants, rental properties, renting

Landlord Tenant

Good morning Dinks.  Last week I was off work on vacation and you know what that means, I spent ten lovely days watching nothing but court room drama TV shows.  That’s right I spent two weeks with Judge Judy and Judge Milian of The People’s Court.  All I can say is I learn something new every time I watch an episode of a judge show.

I’m obsessed with judge shows

Common cases on judge shows involve dogs, neighbours, landlords and contractors.  Over the last few months I have seen several cases about tenants suing landlords over damage from Hurricane Sandy.  I also see a lot of cases about tenants who sue their landlords for return of their security deposit.  Sometimes the judge rules in favor of the landlord and sometimes the judge rules in favor of the tenants.

Tenants protect yourselves when you move out

Let me tell you as a tenant myself I have become super paranoid about my living situation and I am now planning how I will document our move when we don’t renew our lease in October.  After six years of living in our apartment Nick and I have decided to relocate to a new neighbourhood and a bigger apartment come Fall.

The last thing I want is to move to a new apartment and be sued by my previous landlord after we already moved out.  I want to leave just the way we came, peacefully and quietly.  In order to prevent any unlawful law suits I am going to protect us with three little lessons learned from watching judge shows.

These are three lessons learned from The People’s Court and Judge Judy:

Take photos before and after your tenants move in.  It’s too late for us to take photos of when we moved in (ah if I only knew then what I know now), but we will definitely take photos of the condition of our apartment when we move out.  We will take pictures of all rooms including the kitchen, bedroom, living room and bathroom to show that we did not leave the apartment with any damage and that we did leave it clean.

Every visit, every communication.  Landlords can be known to do some shady things.  We once had a landlord who liked to enter our apartment “for emergencies” when we weren’t home, even though we didn’t give them permission to do so.  Now we keep track of every and all communication with our landlord, even for small things such as maintenance and repairs.  I also kept our original lease from six years ago as well as our yearly apartment renewal ever since.

Keep immaculate records.  I can’t even tell you how many cases I have seen have a verdict in favor of the defendant because the plaintiff couldn’t prove their case.  I am not sure why anyone would go to court without proof of their claim except they didn’t actually have any records to show.  This (along with my obsession for organization) is why I always keep records of everything.

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Who controls your relationship?

relationship, couples, couples advice, couples finances

Dogs kissing

Good morning Dinks.  Let me ask you a question, who controls your relationship?  I would love to say that relationships are a 50/50 exchange of power, money and support.  But as I get older I am learning that relationships are a lot of things, but being equal is not always one of them.

Being in a relationship is different for everyone.  Back in the day people got married because that’s what they were supposed to do.  Back then people graduated high school, got married as teenagers or in their 20s, had kids and retired from their first job.  That’s just what they did.  That generation may end in divorce because as people grow up they change; the new version of you may no longer be compatible with your spouse.

Nowadays people wait to get married.  We are getting married later on in life (in our 30s and 40s) after we’ve graduated from college and established in our careers.  I would like to think that couples who wait to get married live happily ever after because once you have grown into the person you want to be you can make your relationship work with someone else.

Who makes the decisions?

I recently watched a move called Love Lace starring Amanda Seyfried.  It tells the story of a famous 70s porn star and how she was abused – mentally, emotionally, physically and financially.  Her husband made all the business deals, controlled her money and became violent whenever she disagreed with him.

When Seyfried’s character turned to her parents for support her mother turned her away.  Her mother reminded her that she was married now and her husband knows what’s best for her.  Could you imagine living in a relationship where you had no say in any matters?

Who controls the money?

I know that some people think it’s just easier for one person to control the money in a relationship, but I don’t agree with it.  My Dad lives his life like this and it really drives me crazy.  My Dad gives his wife a lump sum of money every month and he doesn’t ask questions.  He doesn’t know how much their cable bill costs and he doesn’t know the monthly cost for car insurance.

I understand a relationship has to have trust, but when it comes to money you can never be too careful.  I always tell my Dad that he could be paying 70% of the expenses and his wife (who is extremely weird about money) could be completely ripping him off and he would have no idea.

Who leads your social life?

Sometimes when people get into a relationship they completely eliminate their friends.  This personally drives me crazy, but I do understand it.  New love can be exciting and wanting to spend every moment of every day with your loved one is a feeling like no other.  I had a friend who did this and after some time when she reached out to me I was definitely willing to forgive her.  However some of our other friends were not so kind and their friendships will never be the same. It’s too bad for your friends, but they just have to understand that sometimes couples just want to hang out by themselves.

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What did your parents give up?

being a parent, sacrificing for your child, parenting

Embarrassing parents - swan duckling

Good morning Dinks.  This past weekend I watched an episode of Judge Judy where a mother was suing her daughter for crashing her car.  It got me thinking – WOW I owe my parents some good car karma because I was a horrible driver.  I was always in a rush and I was very impatient as a 16 year old young driver.  These traits combined with the fact my parents both drove standard cars made for a very interesting couple of years.  It led to a total of four car crashes to be exact.

Teaching your kids to drive

I personally cost my parents several thousands of dollars during my teenage years while I was learning to drive.  The cost of driving lessons, the cost to replace one clutch and an incident with a neighbour’s parked car come to mind.  Then two years later my sister got her learners permit and drove my Mom’s Jeep through our garage door.   To say that my driving cost my parents a lot of mental, emotional and financial stress would be an understatement.

For years after I moved out I was not able to drive my parent’s cars when I came home to visit.  My parent’s said it was for insurance reasons, but I think they were still traumatized by previous events.

When my sister and I go home to visit our parents they still insist we sit in the passenger seat.  My Mother has mentioned on several occasions that she wishes we would have kids so we could experience what she went through while teaching us to drive.  I guess the trauma still stays with my parents.

Putting their health to the side

To have two teenage daughters is definitely a hazard to any parent’s health, but that’s not what I’m talking about.  When I was young I had really bad teeth which required two to be pulled out, three years of braces and two years of wearing a retainer.

The cost of multiple dental appointments can quickly add up.  Then there were the two times I lost my retainer while on vacation and my parents had to pay for replacements.  To this day my Dad tells me to take care of my teeth because it cost him 10 years in working overtime.  Now that I look back on the situation neither one of my parents have spectacular teeth and I wonder why they never got them fixed.  Maybe it’s because they couldn’t afford it after paying for their kids.

Following their dreams

My Dad always tells stories of how he wanted to be a writer (maybe that’s where I get it).  I always wonder why he never pursued his dreams, but I never ask.  I guess it’s because I am afraid of the answer.  Will he tell me that he never went to college because my Mother got pregnant and he had to find a full time job to support his new family?  Yes I think that’s the exact reason.  Maybe it’s not, but I guess I’ll never know.

I am not saying my parents regret having kids, but I think their lives would have been a lot easier (and better) if they stayed Dinks.

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Who gives the best financial advice?

best financial advice, money talk, financial advice, financial help

Man reading

Good morning Dinks. Let me ask you a question, when you need a new product or service who do you ask for advice? If you want to eat at a new restaurant, if you want to buy a new face wash or if you are trying to choose your next vacation destination who do you ask? Now if you wanted a referral for financial advice would you ask the same person?

I like to try new products based on advertisements I see in magazines. I am one of those people who is really drawn to advertisements with famous people. When I see a product in a magazine that I want to try I like to rip the page out and then pick it up next time I’m in the store. When I am looking for a specific product or service I like to ask my friends for their opinions. However I know that some of my friends have more extravagant tastes than I do so their referrals are usually out of my price range.

Where do you get your financial advice?

Maybe you go directly to your bank. As a former bank employee I admire bank loyalty. I liked being the first source of information for my clients. There are so many products offered by each bank such as foreign exchange transactions, investment options and credit solutions that it’s rare clients would need to go anywhere else for financial advice. However we live in a world ruled by the bottom line. Sometimes a 0.50% interest rate can make clients want to shop around for their banking needs.

Maybe you still talk with your friends. My friends and I always talk about money, but maybe that’s because we are all current or former bank employees. Money is a major part of our professional lives, and in most cases it’s the common factor of how we became friends. So talking about our money, both good and bad, just seems normal. If I wasn’t a financial planner and needed financial advice I would definitely talk to my friends.

Maybe you are a DIY-er. Are you the type of person who likes to make their own decisions when it comes to matters of money? If so then maybe you prefer to do your own research and give your own financial advice. If this is the case you probably prefer to make your own investment transactions with a discount broker. Online discount broker firms offer attractive pricing and low fees in exchange for all products and services being DIY.

Maybe you need a professional. If you have sophisticated investment needs then you may need a broker firm for financial advice. If you have financial planning, estate planning or offshore investment needs then you should probably seek the expertise of a professional broker firm. Investment professionals charge fees for their services but if you need their service and can’t provide it yourself through a discount broker then it’s a fee well worth paying.

Where do you get your financial advice?

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