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One Amputation, Two Broken Teeth, and $9,000 of Debt

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[Guest article for y’all today by Grayson of DebtRoundup.com]

I am sure most of you have heard the old saying “when it rains, it pours!” Well, that happens to also be the story of my life, at least when I was deep in credit card debt. I had just come to grips with my massive debt load and was working toward a solution to dig myself out. With a full time job, a freelancer career, and a new part-time job, I was extremely busy. I was also extremely motivated to be debt free. Things were going well at first, but I was still living paycheck to paycheck after my debt payments were made. While “going well” is up for interpretation, what happens next will probably swing your vote.

We are a Dog Family for Sure

What can I say, we love dogs. I have had one ever since I was a child. My wife is the same way. I am partial to dogs because I am highly allergic to cats. They won’t ever come in our house, not even for a minute. When we bought our new house, we had to replace all of the carpet and clean out the entire HVAC system, so I wouldn’t blow up like a balloon! So, yeah, no cats!

Anyway, my wife and I got our first dog when we were dating in college. He stayed at my place and all was good. When we bought our first home, my wife wanted another one. “Sure, why not” I said. So, two dogs in and a few years later, we got the itch. I don’t think it was fleas, but we definitely got the itch. Both of our dogs were rescued, so we went for another. Our animal control had a ton of dogs and I have a weak spot for those little ones. One day I asked my wife what she thought and she said sure. A few hours later, we had another dog in our house. Talk about chaos!

Our dogs lived together for a full year in harmony. They played with each other, went on many walks, and slept in the same room. They were enjoying life, or so we thought. That all changed one day when I came from from work on a whim before going to my second job.

The Backyard Massacre

I typically didn’t go home before my second job, but I didn’t pack my dinner. After a full day at work, I was hungry. I drove home planning on jumping in and eating some leftovers. Well, that was the plan anyway. I went in the front door and started getting my dinner ready. Our backyard was fenced, so the dogs spent their day outside. Everything was peachy keen until I realized only one dog was at the door wanting to come in. I looked at her through the glass door and noticed red on her face. “Hmm…that doesn’t seem right” went through my head.

I put down my food and walked toward the door hoping to see the other two. Unfortunately, I didn’t see them at first. After scanning the backyard, I noticed one in the doghouse, but still no sign of the other. Things didn’t feel right and they certainly weren’t. After stepping outside, I noticed the carnage.

**NOTICE: This next part could be graphic for some**

There was blood all over our concrete patio, up the siding, and throughout the grass. There was blood on three sides of the house. I could quickly tell the one dog at the door was fine. She just had blood on her face, but it was from one of the other dogs. The second dog was cowering in the dog house. I could see from a distance her face was all puffed up. I just couldn’t locate the last dog.

I ran around the corner and my heart skipped a beat. My only male dog and our first was lying there motionless in the grass. I called out his name, but got no response. I started to panic a bit. After running over to him, I could see he was breathing slightly, very slightly. He couldn’t move, but he did move his eyes. When he saw me, he started to whimper. Tears started to roll down my face*.

He was covered in blood and I could see puncture wounds all over his legs and torso. He was losing blood fast. I had to do something and quick. I ran back inside to grab a towel and called the vet at the same time. They were about to close, so I told them I would be there in a few minutes with an emergency. I scooped up my dog and put him in the back of the car. I drove like a bat out of hell to the vet. I didn’t care who was in my way. On my way, I called my sister-in-law to come pick up the other dog as I figured she was in pain. I quickly checked her over before I left and she had some noticeable issues.

The Vet Comes to the Rescue…Sort of!

I squealed into the vet parking lot like a NASCAR driver and grabbed my dog out of the car. I kicked (literally) the door open to the waiting room and they knew what to do. The vet staff grabbed him and put him in the back. That was when I was able to start processing what happened. There was a whirlwind of emotion for sure. That feeling didn’t last long since my sister-in-law came in a few minutes later with the other dog. The vet staff took her in the back and started checking her out.

We were only there for 20 minutes before our vet came out and told us we would need to take the dogs to an emergency clinic that has overnight hours. It was 25 minutes away and they were aware of our situation. By this time, my wife had gotten off work and drove over. As we were loading the two dogs into our car, I asked the vet what she saw on the dogs. All she could tell me is she noticed puncture wounds, which they shaved and cleaned. She also gave both dogs an IV of a saline solution to keep them hydrated. I told them to bill me after I got done at the other clinic.

The Emergency Clinic Does the Job

When we arrived at the emergency clinic, they were all very nice and super supportive. They have seen some of the worst injuries, so this didn’t seem to bother them. They took both dogs in the back and started to work. They asked us questions about what happened. Unfortunately, I couldn’t tell them much as I wasn’t there. After about 30 minutes, the main vet came out to give us the low-down. She indicated that the female dog had two broken teeth and several facial lacerations. They would have to pull the teeth out and repair some of her gum line. She was the lucky one.

Our male dog didn’t fare so well. He had bite marks all over his neck and body. He also had severe bites on one of his legs. It was so bad that he had lost blood flow to the leg. Their only solution was to amputate his leg. My dog was going to be a tri-pod. My wife and I told her to do what she needed to and that is what they did. The female dog stayed at the vet overnight along with the male. She got released the next day. Our male dog had to stay at the vet for 3 more nights in order to get treatment and learn how to walk with three legs. It was a long and stress filled journey. That was just the beginning!

Money, Money, and More Money

I didn’t start thinking about how much money this whole ordeal was going to cost until the emergency vet asked how we were going to pay for the treatments. They provided us with a bill every night with the updated total. It was a staggering amount. Something I never thought I would pay.

Since I was already maxed out with my regular credit cards, we had to resort to applying for a Care Credit card. These cards provide funding for people who need to get medical treatments or expensive vet treatments. They didn’t give me much credit, so my wife had to apply as well. Yea! We always needed more credit cards. The only good thing was they provided us with 14 months of interest free financing. I will take the little wins.

In the end, the vet bill from the emergency clinic alone totaled a little over $8,000! Yes, I said $8,000. We had to fund that bill on both Care Credit cards and add to our overall debt. On top of that bill, our regular vet charged us nearly $900 for 20 minutes of work. Oh yes, $900!

A Dog Fight Worth $9,000

After the bills stopped coming in the mail and we had to figure out what went wrong, we were staring at nearly $9,000 in vet bills. That event put me in a dark place as I had no idea how we were going to pay for the services. Before you ask if we had pet insurance, we did have it for the female dog, but they ended up covering nothing. They gave us some excuse about how the dog was a pitbull, so they wouldn’t cover the bill. Yes, we had a pitbull, but the insurance company knew the breed. They charged us extra for it. They also indicated they likely wouldn’t cover but a few hundred for the other dog because of the pitbull. That day, I canceled the insurance and never thought about it again. Waste of money and full of excuses to not pay!

Though I was looking at a large bill, I realized I need to try and negotiate some of the costs. This was especially true with our regular vet. I can’t see how you can justify a $900 bill for 20 minutes of work. They itemized the bill for me, which gave me more than enough information to fight the charges.

I went into the vet office and asked to speak with whomever would go over the bill. For 30 minutes, I told them I would not pay their crazy prices. They charged us $200 per dog just for shaving their wounds. They used a freaking electric razor! It took them a few minutes to do each dog. The emergency clinic even told me they had to do it again because the shave was not good. Nope, not paying full price!

They also charged us $100 just for prepping the IV on each dog. So, they charged me $100 just to stick a needle in their their leg, each! Probably another minute or two. Then came the saline bags. One dog needed one bag and the other needed three. Each bag cost us $40. Yes, bags of saline solution cost $160. Luckily, my wife told me how much her hospital pays for each of their bags, which are larger. Let’s just say it is much less than what they charged. The rest of their bill were just over inflated charges for supplies.

I told them I would pay a fee that is justifiable. Their rate was not right in my mind. After some back and forth, along with a manager coming out, I was able to reduce the bill from $900 to $450. While it was not a real win, it was much better than it was before. I didn’t have such luck at the emergency clinic. They stayed strong with their rates. Most of the $8,000 bill came from the overnight stays. They wouldn’t even budge on the outrageous disposal fee. What is that you ask? It cost us $400 just for them to bag up and throw out the dog leg into their medical waste. Yes, they wouldn’t come down from that crazy one. I didn’t know it was so labor intensive to put a dog leg into a bag and throw it into the trash. Who knew?

How the Dog Fight Affected Us

Beyond the fact our dogs were involved in an internal fight and one lost the leg, we had to deal with some other issues as well. After the fight, the two dogs wouldn’t coexist together any longer. We never figured out who started the fight or how it happened, but we definitely know who won. In the end, we decided to give away our pitbull to my sister-in-law. She wanted a dog and loved the Pit. They have been good ever since and the dog really is a sweetheart. She doesn’t show aggression toward others, so we don’t know what happened to instigate the fight.

Since we only had a 14-month promotional period on the new credit cards, we decided to stop paying extra on our other debt and kill off the vet debt. We were able to pay it all off within the 14 months, but it put our original plan back 14 months. When it rains, it pours!

One thing that I took out of the whole fight was how important it is to have some type of emergency fund. I don’t care if you call it that or a rainy day fund. You can even call it a dogfight fund. Doesn’t matter. Just have something. When in debt, I didn’t think about having such a fund. I wanted to put everything I had into my debt payments. Boy did my mindset quickly change. After we started paying on our vet bill debt, I started my debt/saving allocation method and was able to slowly build an emergency fund. Now I will always make sure I have something in the bank to keep me afloat when tragedy strikes.

I also learned to never accept a crazy bill without looking it over and getting an explanation. You would be surprised how easy it can be to get companies to come down. Never be afraid to negotiate with your creditors or for any thing you own money on. I have seen people negotiate with retailers about a price and get it reduced. When you think something doesn’t look right, take some time and figure out why and then get answers. The worst they can say is no.

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Grayson is a business owner, offering management and content services to blog owners. He also runs the personal finance blog Debt Roundup and a few others. When he isn’t online, he is conquering DIY work and maintaining his Jeep Wrangler.

*Yes, I am a man, yet when it comes to my dogs, they are part of my family.

photo courtesy of expert Infantry

7 Revealing Facts About the Van-Driving Industry

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Nissan’s 2013 Van Report surveyed 250 van drivers and 252 fleet managers to offer valuable insight into the habits and characteristics of van drivers and their managers. Here are a few highlights from the report.

1. There Are Five Times More Female Managers Than Female Drivers

It’s been a stereotype for a long time. But the facts reinforce the assumption: only 1 in 20 van drivers are female. While the driving scene is dominated by males, they found that nearly 1 in 4 fleet managers were female.

2. 72% of Van Drivers Feel That Driving a Clean Van Improves Overall Driving

Some Van insurance fact: Nissan suggested that introducing a “clean van” policy could reduce the rate of accidents and lower the premiums on a company’s van insurance policy.

3. Van Drivers Are Loyal

Almost half of the drivers surveyed said they’d been with their employer for six years or more. Nearly 1 in 10 van drivers said they’d been with their employer for more than 20 years.

4. Van Drivers Aren’t a Young Workforce

According to the survey, 71% of drivers are over 35 years of age. A mere 3% were in the 16-24 range, meaning that companies will soon need to start attracting younger workers to replace their ageing workforce.

5. Daily Mileage is Lower Than Expected

Nissan was surprised to discover that nearly half of respondents drove for 100 miles or less each day. This could be due to improvements in modern distribution strategies: larger trucks tend to make the long-haul journeys, letting the smaller vans finish the delivery more locally.

Nissan thinks that this means it’s more feasible than ever to replace traditional vans with eco-friendly electric vehicles.

6. Fleet Managers Prefer Sat-Nav When Choosing New Vans

When asked what their most preferred feature was when selecting new vans for their fleet, 40% chose satellite navigation. Surprisingly, only 9% chose fuel economy, and only 3% chose reliability.

7. 25% of Fleet Managers Do Nothing to Control Fuel Consumption

In a world where fuel prices and pollution concerns are continually rising, it’s surprising that such a large section of fleet managers are taking no measures to reduce or control fuel consumption.

Of those managers who are taking action, implementing driver training and fitting speed limiters came out ahead as the two most popular methods.

photo courtesy of Hugo90

A day in the life of a loan shark victim in modern Britain

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We have all heard tales of how loan sharks operate, but rarely do we get a true insight into the day-to-day operation of loan sharks and how this impacts their victims. This blog details the true to life experiences of one anonymous loan shark victim. We hear from her how she was lured into the shady financial arrangements that would later cause her life to be ruled by fear and worry about debts she had no control over.

Christmas around the corner and struggling for money
In 2000, Debra Smith (not her real name) and her carer husband had four children and were struggling financially. They did not go out looking for a loan, however when they mentioned to a family friend that they needed some spare cash for Christmas, they were informed about a local man who offered loans to struggling families. Unbeknownst to them their friend put them in touch with a local loan shark who gave them £500 in cash. No terms were explicitly agreed or explained to the family which left them under the impression they could repay the £500 when they had a bit more spare cash.

The aftermath of dealing with a loan shark

After a few weeks the family were contacted and twice the original amount loaned was demanded. The loan shark had started to bear its teeth! After a few months the family were repaying over £1000 each month and when the loan shark demanded more money, the family asked for some respite. However, there was no compassion shown and the loan shark threatened that he may have to sell the loan on to others who would use physical violence to recoup their money.

Frightened and unsure of what their legal rights were, the family struggled on and continued to repay over £1000 pounds in interest a month – a staggering amount given that the original loan sum was just £500. As they were struggling to make the repayments of interest, they were never any closer to replaying the original sum and as every month passed they were in fear that their home would be attacked.

The stress of the situation was later to affect Debra’s health and she suffered as stroke in 2005. Several strokes followed, however the loan shark showed no understanding whatsoever and continued to threaten the family even further. At this stage the family were threatened that the loan would be sold on to people who would physically attack Debra and members of her family to recoup the debt and the interest payments.

Biting back: the family contact the police
After 8 years the family decided to contact local police, who informed them that the loan shark arrangement was unlawful and he never had any right to demand the money back in the first place. However, this was no comfort to the family who by this stage owed £1200 in monthly interest alone and were no closer to clearing the original debt. At this stage, Debra and her family had already repaid over £128,000 over a period of eight years.

2009 and the tables turned on the loan shark
In August 2009 the table turned on the loan shark, when police raided his property. They found and confiscated hi tech TVs and luxury cars; he had been spending the money repaid by struggling families, living in luxury! In late 2009 the loan shark faced court and pleaded guilty to harassment. He later received a suspended sentence and was ordered to repay Debra 1500 a month, or else face prison.

A nationwide problem?
This story is the true-life experience of a victim of a loan shark in modern Britain. It is shocking and even more shocking is that these kinds of experiences are more common than many of us may imagine. Typically vulnerable people fall victim to loan sharks, for example people who are poor and don’t qualify for more conventional credit, or people who are in the country illegally and have no chance of getting a conventional loan. In such circumstances, it is equally shocking that so many people focus a critical eye on payday lenders like Wonga, who offer loans to people who, otherwise may never qualify for a loan, and on reasonable terms that are fully explained by the lender. Perhaps more attention should be paid to loan sharks who resort to crime, violence and harassment in order to recoup illegal loans?

Leave a reply!
What are your views? Have you fallen victim to a loan shark, or have you ever used a reputable payday lender? Please feel free to leave a comment or a reply and remember that this story is a true life account of how one family was affected by a loan shark. Only names have been changed.

DINKs Net Worth – Happy Anniversary!

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James & Miel celebrating their 7th wedding anniversary last year.

James & Miel celebrating their 7th wedding anniversary last year.

As we mark our 8th wedding anniversary, we also took the time this weekend to update our net worth.

What they say about the first million being the hardest to break seems to be true. In retrospect, the first $400k mark actually felt the hardest. It was back when the market was tanking and it felt like we’d never reach our goal.




Once we hit the million mark last fall, it seems that the principles of basics compounding math and good savings habits are working in our favor.  As of now our net worth is $1.2 million.

On the one hand this feels like steady progress, in looking where we were at 11 months ago, we are up 25% since last July.

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The nitty gritty of our increase in net worth since April comes down to a few basics things:

1. The overall market is up and we’ve continued to see growth in our retirement portfolios. James also just got a bump up in his salary this month and added it straight to his retirement contributions. It doesn’t impact our net worth today, but doing the same in the past certainly has.

2. We refinanced on two of our places and saw an increase in their appraised values.
* Our personal place is up by $55k from when we bought exactly three years ago.
* Our beach cabins, custom built in 2012, also saw huge gains. The larger of the two, was built for $250k and appraised for $320k.
* In addition to the increase to our net worth value, we’ll also spend less on a monthly basis for our mortgages. This means we’ll have extra money to use for our next financial goals.

Our reflections for this round of net worth updates is the significance of the long term affects of investing in both retirement savings and real estate.

What is your net worth looking like these days? Care to share?

Cheers,

Miel

International Home Designs

One of the more interesting aspects of traveling international is to see home designs throughout the world. There are both common elements wherever you are in the world, while there are still distinctions that set homes apart.

Built for the Environment

Ideally homes are built to suit the environment in which they are built. Some first home designs here in Australia show the quintessential Aussie flavor of modern homes in Australia. I can see the barbie on the back porch already! These homes also remind me of Hawaii, with the same laid back efficiency.

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Not for Your Neighbors
An example of where this rule isn’t practiced is in Afghanistan, where homes are called Poppy Palaces, since they are funded by drug lords. They are the essence of opulence, our office had martini olive lamps that we removed for cultural correctness. They are designed in replication of homes in Islamabad, where it is hot and the high ceilings are practical.

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Buy the Best you Can
Another buying rule is to buy the best you can for your budget. This home in Zimbabwe shows how nicely a basic village hut can be, with a finished floor and a bio sand filter for fresh clean water. It may be a hut, but they are proud of their home and keep it tidy.

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What does your home design say about where you live?

Cheers,

Miel

Benidorm: A Budget-friendly Beach Destination For Couples

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If you are a couple looking for a fun-filled beach holiday that won’t cost you an arm and a leg, then you should strongly consider going to Benidorm, Spain. Budgeting for a nice holiday away can be tough for couples, especially with considerations such as saving for a deposit normally taking priority. Thankfully, Benidorm offers a lot for couples on a tight budget and can give you that all-so-important break away without breaking the bank!

Benidorm Package Holidays

Package holidays to Benidorm are perfect for couples and newlyweds who want to experience a sunbathing haven that is fuelled by white, sandy beaches alluring plazas and vibrant side streets among other things. From the perspective of budget conscious couples, a pleasing aspect of going to Benidorm for a package holiday is that a sizeable percentage of things you most likely will want to do can be done for free. These include strolling through the Old Town of Benidorm, sunbathing on the Levante beach or taking a look at the San Jaime and Santa Ana church. Having excellent free attractions makes holidaying on a budget so much easier in a place like Benidorm than it would be compared with somewhere where practically everything needs to be paid for, such as Dubai.

Package Holiday Savings

Depending on the Benidorm package deal you take, you may or may not have food included. If you don’t have food included, then there is no need to fret as in Benidorm good food can be found at low prices. Much of the food in Benidorm tends to be standard British fare, however, you can also find some traditional Spanish tapas and paella, if you feel a little more adventurous in your tastes.

Save For The Best Attractions

If you scrimp and save the whole time that you are in Benidorm, then you might come away from the trip feeling a bit disappointed. After all, there are some extremely fun and exciting attractions to go and see which you really ought to visit. On a tight budget, the best way around this is to save on little expenses each day and then use the money saved to visit attractions such as Aqualandia which will leave you with far more amazing memories than your daily Gin and Tonic!

Summary

Benidorm is the ideal destination for couples on a budget. It is great value and has a lot of free things to do and see together. However, making daily savings on your expenditure is advised so you have enough money to pay for at least one or two premium attractions.

photo courtesy of Stephen

The 5 Most Interesting Destinations In Turkey

Turkey is one of the most fascinating places in the world. Turkey’s location as a connection point between Europe and Asia and the influences of the various empires throughout history that have thrived and expired within the borders of the country have given Turkey a culture all its own. Within the borders of Turkey, there is a wide range of climatic diversity within its seven geographical regions, comprising mountains, plains, caves, seas and many other natural formations. There are many interesting destinations in Turkey to explore. Here are five of the best.

Cappadocia

This unique city is comprised of underground cities, cave churches and hotels, and houses carved out of stone. Some of the underground cities were used by early Christians as hideouts from oppressive forces. The unusual rock formations of the area were created as a result of eroding rains and winds sweeping over the lava covered plain over thousands of years. Cappadocia is also the home of the Turasan Wine Factory, creators of the world famous Cappadocia wines.

Ephesus

Ephesus contains the ruins of the second largest city of the Roman Empire. One of the most well-known landmarks of the city is the Celsius library, which was built in 123 AD and was third largest library in the ancient world, after Alexandria and Pergamon. Ephesus also houses the Fountains of Trojan, The Temples of Hadrian and Domition, and the Great Theatre, which had a capacity of 24,000 spectators. Christian and catholic visitors to Ephesus may be interested in seeing the House of Virgin Mary, where she spent last days of her life.

Istanbul

If you love the fast-paced life of a large and busy city, then Istanbul is the destination for you. The cultural and financial hub of Turkey, Istanbul also offers a wealth of historic and religious places to see, with many of these ancient monuments dating back to the Roman, Byzantine, and Ottoman empires. Istanbul is the home of the Grand Bazaar, the Blue Mosque, the Hagia Sophia, and the ancient Topkapi Palace. Spotblue.com has many properties available in this location for investment, holiday use, retirement or permanent living.

Mount Nemrut

Mount Nemrut is the home of royal tombs of the Komogene Kingdom. While the tombs themselves cannot be explored, it is possible to see the famous eight-meter statue heads that are some of the most famous landmarks of Turkey. The western terrace of the monument contains a large relief of a lion and shows the arrangement of stars and the planets Jupiter, Mercury and Mars as they would have been seen on 7 July 62 BC, which some believe to be an indication of when this monument was created.

Pamukkale

Pamukkale (translation: Cotton Castle) is destination unlike any other in the world. The area is dotted with solidified pools of calcium water that resemble clouds and have hot springs rising from them. Visitors and residents frequently come to these hot springs because of their very high mineral content and their lovely appearance. The area has been used as a spa since the second century BC. Everything in the area, from the village center to the travertine pools, can be easily reached on foot in ten to fifteen minutes.

Tips for Setting Financial Goals with Your Spouse

Communication is a vital part of our relationships. Some feel being able to speak with your spouse about any subject is a sign of trust and healthy marriage. However, certain subjects tend to be more sensitive and cause more concern.

This includes money, which is a common challenge for different couples. Families of all income levels differ over how and where money is spent. Wealthy couples may battle over where to invest and what is or is not wasteful spending. Couples with money challenges must prioritize scarce resources.

Thankfully, there are similar best practices for various situations.

Here are smart strategies for couples to set financial goals:

Set Common Goals:

The concept of achieving something together is powerful. Setting financial goals teaches us to compromise and better understand how our sweeties’ view money. You must communicate to truly separate wants and essentials. While opinions vary; debt reduction, emergency funds and retirement planning are wise goals for all couples.

Be Specific and Measure Success:

Avoid generic goals and set specific targets. Investing, saving and debt are broad terms that should be defined for your situation. This includes budgets, timelines and being accountable. For instance, aim to save $200/month at $100 apiece in a joint account at XYZ Bank over the next year. The goal is more likely to be achieved since each person has a stake in the success.

Divide the Goal Fairly:

We can keep the peace by adjusting for differences in income and time. The higher earning spouse may invest a greater share to retirement accounts or a child’s college fund. Time is also a valuable asset. Stay- at-home spouses may research and choose investments or track progress on savings goals. These are crucial aspects of success that do not require money.

Review Your Progress:

Check how you’re tracking towards the goal in stages to ensure each person is committed. A 1 year goal can be reviewed every 3 months. In cases where your hubby/wife is not meeting their commitment, use some tact and don’t jump to conclusions. Was there an unexpected expense or pay cut? If so, you can adjust the goal to more realistic levels. You can also earn karma points and step up your own contributions to make up the shortfall.

Collaborate Your Skills:

Separate skills can be meshed for financial goals. As an example, a couple can combine money skills and social media savvy to stay informed on financial topics. Teaming up has value for business opportunities, as well. Film Financier Elliott Broidy joined his wife Robin, a movie producer, for the film ‘Snake and Mongoo$e in late 2013. The pair blended unique skills to create a project together. You too can enjoy building something in tandem by matching different skills.

Don’t Keep Money Secrets!

Your money history can cause unpleasant surprises in direct and indirect ways. A spouse’s spotty credit report may require more money for a mortgage down payment than a couple planned for. You don’t have to drown each other in details, but be candid about money.

If you are prone to risky impulses when investing, be upfront or consider hiring a financial planner. We also risk losing trust if these surprises prevent us from closing on a mortgage or effective savings. Short term setbacks such as job loss, wage cuts or surprise expenses should all be discussed.

Celebrate Success:

Make sure to toast your success, no matter how small. If you’ve reached your savings target for the past 6 months, enjoy a romantic dinner or family day trip. We get instant gratification by enjoying small milestones along the way to long term goals.

Summary:

Money is a topic that affects nearly all couples. By setting and achieving financial goals, money brings us closer together.

DINKs No Longer!

James & Miel announcing their pregnancy at 18 weeks pregnant.  They are having a boy, due June 2nd.
James & Miel announcing at 18 weeks pregnant. They are having a boy, due June 2nd.


Yep, the original DINKs, James & Miel are about to no longer qualify for the status of DINKs. We are expecting our first child any day now and wanted to share a bit with our readers about the transformation.

When we started DINKs Finance eight years ago, on the eve of our marriage, we were like many couples in their late twenties and early twenties. We really didn’t know if in fact we would eventually have children or not. We were pretty sure they weren’t in the cards for some time, between Miel’s travels and James being in grad school at the time, we knew we were settling into life as DINKs.

The thing that I find interesting about this, is that there are more and more couples who may fall into this category. Even if couples choose to eventually have children, more couples than not will probably spend a period of time living as DINKs. This puts those couples in position to get a jump start on establishing good financial practices, saving for retirement, and potentially making it easier financially to take on the financial responsibility of having kids if they choose to do so.

In past generations family finance, like home economics, was more of a given. While DINKs Finance lives on, keeping our primary writer Kristina with occasional posts from James and I, blogging habits don’t go away when kids arrive. The financial challenges simply change. Miel will actually be writing for Sustainable Family Finances, a blog initially created by her twin sister Darcy who lives in Portland, Oregon with her three children. The blog offers dual story lines of identical twins who are both very similar and very different at the same time, particularly in how they approach finances. We are also starting with a series on our Money Stories (aka hangups) that have influenced each of us.

Miel (left) & Darcy (right)

Miel (left) & Darcy (right)

We hope you’ll continue to follow along the journey, both on the DINKs and nonDINKs side of finances! We’d also love to hear from our readers on what their status is. Are you a DINK? A former DINK or potential former DINK?

Cheers,

Miel

Tips on how to manage your finances and increase your savings

Personal finance management is a very important subject matter that can never be taken for granted. The act of saving plays an important role when it comes to personal finance management. Over the past few years, people have been drawn to the culture of saving due to the unpredictability of the global economy. The booms and busts of the economy have prompted more people to save the little they get in order survive.
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Even though the saving culture is hugely encouraged, it’s not an easy task. There are different ways an individual can save money to an extent that some of them can be overlooked. On the brighter side, with the different ways of saving, one is bound to find one that suites them perfectly. This article will compile some tips on how to manage your finances and increase your savings.

a) Make a budget
Making a good budget is a process. For the process to be successful, you need to start by keeping track of all your monthly expenses. This will help you get a rough idea of what you spend during a given month. You do not have to be extreme while doing this. Just be comfortable with yourself and come up with an estimate.

Once you have the monthly estimates, write it down. Here, you should be very objective and only take down the stock of what you actually spent. When writing your actual budget you also need to take into account your spending history in order to come up with a projected budget. When preparing a budget, it is very important to be true to yourself.

b) Spend money wisely
In order to experience financial freedom, you need to get off the so called the consumption treadmill. Try as much as possible to avoid the habits of borrowing tomorrow’s income to meet today’s expenditures. This is the beginning of loathing money.

c) Setup auto-withdrawals from your account
You can set up automatic withdrawals straight from your checking account or savings account on a weekly, monthly or quarterly basis. This is a great way to encourage savings because at no point will you miss cash.

d) Broaden your mind
Educating your mind on the different ways to increase your savings through reading excellent finance, economics and accounting books can boost your saving culture. Dedicate a few hours each week to read these books and see the effect they’ll have on you.

e) Always reward yourself
You need to come up with your financial goals when saving. Every time you achieve those goals, reward yourself for your achievement. Saving does not mean that you have to live as a miser.

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