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Tahnya is a Certified Financial Planner and former Investment Advisor turned marketing and communications professional She holds a degree from Concordia University, is debt free and currently works in the field of digital marketing.

Take a couple’s vacation this summer

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Good morning Dinks. Nick and I just got back from our week-long vacation in Niagara Falls and we had a blast. I am thankful that the weather cooperated with us and for the most part it was sunny and warm.  Nick and I haven’t been on vacation together in a while, other than our stay-cations that we spend at home, so it was nice to just get away from everything and take a break from our everyday routine. However at the same time I usually travel alone so it was an adjustment for us to travel together.

Travelling as a couple is all about the big C

I love spending time with Nick but truth be told we don’t really have any extracurricular activities in common.  He loves sports and I am just not as passionate about the subject as he is.  I do admire the chemistry that sports fans have together; their love for a team or for a sport seems to bring people from all walks of life together in harmony (for the most part).

Nick is a huge Philadelphia Eagles fan and whenever he wears a t-shirt or a hat with their logo on it other sports fans feel the need to scream out to him on the street.  Then we are forced to stop and make sports small chat with other couples that we don’t know.  This definitely doesn’t happen to me when I travel alone.

It’s a give and take when you travel as a couple

When travelling as a couple or travelling with someone (anyone) of the opposite sex it’s only normal that you want to do different activities. The difference between travelling with friends and travelling with your spouse is that we have to be a little bit more careful not to our spouses feelings or insist too much for certain activities because at the end of the day we still have to live with our spouse when the vacation is over.

Shopping is the one activity that I prefer to do alone.  The pressure of someone waiting for me when shopping ruins my whole experience and I don’t enjoy it as much.  Now that I am a reformed spender I don’t shop a lot but when I do I like to enjoy it.

Nick is just as budget conscious as I am when shopping so he has no problem hitting up the outlets when we take a vacation.   I could spend a whole day walking around, admiring people and looking for the best deals whereas Nick is more of a get in and get out kind of guy; if we spend more than a couple of hours shopping he is already bored.  I understand the fact that men don’t like to spend too much time shopping because the clothing choices for men are very limited.  Levis jeans with Nike t-shirts usually don’t vary too much in their sizes.  Men (or at least my boyfriend) don’t need to try on their clothes and this limits the amount of time they need to spend shopping.

When you travel with your spouse how do you decide what to do?

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What does your bank say about you?

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Good morning Dinks. We often talk about our financial habits, our past financial mistakes, our personal financial goals and our personal investment strategies – so today let’s discuss the one place that brings all of those subjects together…our bank.

As a former bank branch employee I find the relationships that people have with their banks absolutely fascinating. Some people opened their account at a bank branch because their family also deals there, some people opened their account at a particular bank because it is close to their home or office and some people opened their account at a certain bank based on the referral from a friend.

Why do you deal with your bank?

Maybe it’s because you are conservative. When I was searching for a bank in the U.S. I looked into major banks in the New York City area. After researching Chase, Bank of America and TD Bank I finally decided to open my checking and savings accounts with TD Bank because they have a Canadian counterpart and their fees are very reasonable based on their services. I didn’t search smaller banks or credit unions because I wanted a bank with a historical and national presence. If you are conservative then maybe you feel the same way about having a bank with stability.

Maybe you are frugal and shopped around for the best deal. Some people treat their banking relationship the same way they treat any other purchase, they shop around to get the best deal for their money. Establishing a banking relationship and keeping it for many years is very important for a lot of people, but if you are shopping around for a new bank because you don’t like your current bank then you may be shopping around for the best deal. Maybe you opened a bank account with the bank who is giving a promotional gift or with the bank that has the lowest account fees.

Maybe you belong to a community and opened your account because of a cultural affiliation. If you belong to a neighbourhood association, a worker’s union or a specific community then maybe you opened your account with a bank that offers special banking packages for members of the association. This is very common in cultural neighbourhoods as well as with workers unions such as police, construction workers, doctors and fire fighters.

Maybe you are a loyal client and will never change banks. As a financial planner I had clients who came from several generations of the same family. Sometimes I dealt with the grandparents, parents and kids of the same family. Parents like to open kids accounts for their children and then those children change their accounts to student accounts when they are teenagers and eventually regular checking accounts after they graduate from college and enter the workforce. I have changed my bank account twice in my lifetime and trust me it’s a hassle to contact all my utility companies and employer to give them my new banking information. I definitely understand the reason that people have the same bank account for their entire life.

Why did you choose your bank?

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Weekly roundup: July 4, summer and my childhood

Good morning Dinks, happy Friday and happy July 4th weekend. I know that everyone is out eating barbeque, watching fireworks, swimming at the beach and enjoying their weekend. When I was younger I loved the first weekend in July because it meant we were having a big party to kick off the summer.

When the long weekend in July rolled around it meant that school was out and summer started. Do you remember your summers as a kid? Mine consisted of pools, biking and spending time with my friends in our neighbourhood park.  Remember that time in your life when nothing really mattered except your friends and the warm weather. Gosh I miss those days – the days before I had to pay rent, before I had bills and before I worked full time. I absolutely miss my childhood summers.

What is your favourite thing about summer?

Enjoy these great posts and fun giveaways from our friends:

My Diary Entry is giving away a 1 year subscription to SELF magazine

Financial Samurai – Dealing With Fear And Greed To Become A Better Investor

Wise Bread – 5 Best Gas Rewards Credit Cards

Investor Junkie – The Importance of Sticking to Your Investment Strategy

Get Rich Slowly – Are you saving when you should be spending?

NZ Muse – Four tips for travelling with your partner

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I’ve been broke and I’m not going back!

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Good morning Dinks. As you know I have had my share of personal financial struggles. Now I live a very conservative financial life. I don’t save every single penny that I make but I do think twice before spending any money and if I choose to splurge the benefit has to really be worth the cost.

I had my share of trouble with money in the past because I did not live on a budget and I spent more money every month than I actually earned. I racked up thousands of dollars in credit card debt because I liked shopping and having nice things.   Now that I am older I realize that those materialistic things don’t matter in life. All that matters is that I have a roof over my head – a comfortable roof, food in my belly – preferably good food and I enjoy my life – which means I like to travel and visit new places all around the world.

Conservative spending but not set in stone

This week I had a little relapse in my conservative spending habits. All of the summer sales are on and I love walking around window shopping, by the third day by window shopping lunch hours turned into a new summer dress shopping spree.

My shopping sprees nowadays are absolutely nothing like they used to be in my previous financial life. I call my past my previous financial life because it seems like an entire lifetime ago, I look back at those unstable years in my life as if I am looking at another person because it was so different from who I am today.

My summer dress shopping spree ended with six new summer dresses and $100 spent in cash. No credit cards were used and I did not spend more than $20 on any one dress.

You can spend, just don’t splurge

That is my new life, my new financial and my new shopping motto. I don’t mind spending money but I won’t spend money carelessly and I won’t spend money without thinking about my purchase. Before purchasing my new summer dresses I shopped around and passed on several other purchases because they were too expensive.

That is what I love about my new financial life; I don’t get the urge to spend very often because I remember the financial, personal and stressful damage that it can do. But when I do get the urge to spend I am still financially conscious about my purchases and I don’t feel guilty or have to worry about the everlasting repercussions of my purchases. People who are reformed financially responsible shoppers can still spend money, but they just shouldn’t splurge so that they don’t fall back into their old financial habits.

Now I have spent the money, I have six lovely new dresses and I got the shopping fever out of my system. One shopping spree in a while is ok, it’s justifiable and I don’t feel guilty about it. Actually I don’t feel anything at all except happy for my new summer wardrobe. Now if only the weather would get warmer so I can actually wear my new summer dresses.

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Is your personal info safe with your bank?

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Good morning Dinks. Yesterday I received a letter from TD Bank advising me that the fees for my checking and savings accounts are being increased. There were two inserts in the envelope that talked about how TD Bank is using my personal information. I never really thought about how or why my bank is using my information, but now it’s got me thinking.

I have a checking and savings account with TD Bank but I don’t have any credit products. That will probably change when I relocate to the United States, but for now I don’t see the point. Actually it is probably a really good idea to apply for a U.S. credit card now so that I already have an established credit history by the time I arrive in New York City, which will hopefully be later this year.

How much information do you give to your bank?

TD Bank only has my name, address, phone number in the U.S. and two pieces of identification on file – one of which is my Canadian passport. I personally don’t mind that my U.S. bank has my personal information on file, but I am a minority.

One of the main questions that we are asked by clients in Canadian banking is if our client information and servers are stored in Canada. Many Canadians do not want their information held or stored in the U.S. because of the Patriot Act and other American banking laws.

In my opinion it’s not really a big deal if my bank has my personal information on file because as a bank employee I understand why banks ask for complete personal and contact information as well as two pieces of identification – especially if clients are applying for credit. Being that clients are giving their information to a bank I would like to assume that the bank is keeping client information safe and sound. There are not many services in the world that consumers can have without giving the company some personal information.

Do you want to know what your bank is doing with your info?

The personal information insert from TD Bank advises clients that they can limit how their bank shares their personal information in some ways, but not all.  Banks need to share a client’s personal information especially within different organizations in the bank – if your branch has your personal information for your checking and savings accounts they will have to share it with their credit adjudication department if you apply for a credit card, loan or mortgage.

Banks are legally required to tell clients how and why their collect, share and keep client information safe. At any time clients can inquire how their personal information is being used.

One interesting statement in the information insert that I received from TD Bank is that it states TD Bank will continue to share a client’s personal information as describe in their information policy even after the person is no longer a client at the bank. I thought that the information would be stored and idle if a client no longer has an account, but the bank can apparently still use it.

Do you trust your bank with your personal information?

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Why I want to be self employed full time and all the reasons I don’t do it

As you may know I have been blogging here on Dinks Finance for just over three years…my how time flies.  My blogging experience is a little bit different than many other bloggers out there. I am a certified financial planner and an experienced financial writer but I don’t actually have my own personal finance blog. I write for several different company websites and blogs in addition to my 9 to 5 job in corporate communications (I was previously a financial planner in a bank).

Giving up the 9 to 5 to be self employed

I love writing and I always have. I don’t want to say that I wish I was a full time writer because as of January when I made the transition from banking to corporate communications I became a full time writer. However I do wish that I was writing my own thoughts and doing it from my own apartment, or wherever in the world I want to be.

I want to be self employed because I want to wake up every morning and write my own thoughts and I want to do it on my own time. Don’t get me wrong I don’t think that being self employed will be all roses and gummy bears, but neither is working for a corporation. I know that being self employed is hard work and I am ready to put in the hours. I am just afraid to make the change.

Reasons why being self employed is scary

I will miss my corporate income. I make good money right now from myself employment income as a freelance writer, it lets me travel when and where I want to (when my 9 to 5 permits it) and it gives me a nice emergency savings fund. But don’t get me wrong freelance money is fun  money, it’s not enough to live off. I am definitely not making $80k a year from my freelance work.

I am scared about not having stability. As a freelance writer contracts come and go. I do have long term clients such as my friends here on Dinks Finance, but freelance work can end at anytime and that is a very scary thought.

I’m afraid to become a hermit. I know myself and if I don’t have to leave my apartment, I won’t. I don’t want to become one of those crazy ladies who are afraid to take a step out of her door. Maybe if I lived in an exciting city like New York I would travel around the city and take my laptop with me to work, but I don’t. I live in Montreal.

Here are some bloggers who took the leap from 9 to 5 to being self employed:

Andrea @ So Over This – she offers web design and hosting services to bloggers everywhere. If you visit a great blog and love the design the odds are that Andrea designed it. If you are thinking about revamping your website check her out, but be careful she is booked months in advance.

Carrie @ Careful Cents – is a former accountant who now uses her own experience and skills to help freelancers and entrepreneurs mange their money and grow their business. She is also an experienced writer, editor and online community manager.

J.Money @ Budgets Are Sexy – he is a former graphic designer who does it all. Jay earns income from a variety of online resources including owning several blogs and partnering with major companies on projects. If you see something online the odds are that J. Money has his hand in it.

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Money lessons learned from Burlesque

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Good morning Dinks. You may or may not know that I am extremely addicted to the movie Burlesque. For those of you who have not yet seen this amazing movie (and you are truly breaking my heart) it stars Cher and Christina Aguilera along with Stanley Tucci.

Burlesque is a classic story about a small town girl who moves to L.A. to follow her dreams and become a singer. To make a long story short her dreams do come true and she also finds love along the way.  Burlesque is one of those movies that I pop into my DVD player on a rainy day and watch it over and over again every single week. I also try to catch it whenever it is on TV.

Burlesque is all about finding yourself and following your dreams but believe it or not the movie does have a financial undertone.  Cher the owner of The Burlesque Lounge and she is in so much debt that the bank is going to foreclose on her mortgage, until Christina Aguilera comes along with her golden voice and saves the day.

So what can we learn about money from the movie Burlesque?

Always keep your money in a safe place. When Christina Aguilera first moves to L.A. she hides her extra cash in a Ziploc back in her toilet tank. When she gets robbed the thieves find her stash and take it. I personally very rarely keep more than $10 in my wallet and I never keep more than $60 or so in my apartment. I won’t tell you where I keep my cash stash, but it’s not in my bathroom. I know that we can’t always find a convenient ATM but if our money is safely stored away in a bank it is earning interest and it cannot be stolen if our house is robbed.

Don’t spend money that you don’t have. Cher got into debt because she had a bigger mortgage than she could afford. This is a mistake that doesn’t only happen in the movies. Every single day people spend money that they shouldn’t on things that they can’t afford. I spent $30 on lunch yesterday and I am still regretting it…one day later. I know it’s not the exact same situation as losing your house or your business but the underlying message is still the same…don’t mismanage your money. If you always spend less than you make then you will always have money.

You can count on friends. After Christina Aguilera is robbed she shows up on the doorstep of her friend and co-worker, of course he takes her in with no questions asked because that’s what friends are for. I know that money and family or friends don’t mix but the truth is that when you need them most your family and friends are probably the only people that you can count on.

Money doesn’t buy happiness. The man who is courting Christina Aguilera in the money is a very wealthy business man. He wines and dines her but she just doesn’t love him – despite her best efforts. People who are rich can work very hard for their wealth, but at the end of the day if you don’t have love what are you going to do with all of your money? It’s nice to have nice things, drive nice cars and live in a big home (if you want that) but if you can’t share your happiness with someone who loves you what is it all worth?

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My advice to all the new Dinks out there

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Good morning Dinks. I am not sure if it’s just my group of friends or it’s my entire generation but it seems like less and less people are getting married.  Nowadays it is considered traditional to live at home with your parents until you get married. Young couples are moving in together and starting a life together without the ring on their finger and I am wondering if that is smart or stupid?

Yesterday in the grocery store I saw a young couple at a checkout arguing about the price of their groceries and I instantly knew that they were a newly cohabited couple. Neither one of them had a wedding ring on their finger and they weren’t talking like roommates so they must have been new Dinks.

Do you remember when you first became a Dink?

It takes time to adjust to living with someone; it also takes time to adjust to merged finances. Even if you don’t open a joint bank account if you live together then you have joint bills and expenses each and every month.

When my younger sister first moved in with her boyfriend she was always talking about how great it was to be living together.  I always told her wait until the end of the month until you get your first bill and then let me know if your relationship is still great.

They must have worked it out because three moves, two houses and a dog later they are still happily together and still not married.

I am sure that all couples who have been together for a long time can agree – sometimes you just have to let things go. Relationships are a give and take and sometimes (actually most of the time) it’s just not worth fighting about. Younger couples have to learn that being right or having the last word is not worth the strain that arguing can put on your relationship.

There has to be a decision maker in the house

The person in charge of your monthly income and expenses is usually just a matter of personalities. If one person in the couple has a stronger personality, if one person is more organized or if one person in a couple is better at managing money then they may naturally take control of the family finances – and that’s just normal.

Complementing personalities in a couple are very common. I am very loud and always talking whereas my boyfriend Nick is very quiet.  It works out well because if we were both always talking we wouldn’t hear anything that the other person is saying.

The same is true about money. If you are good with money and your spouse is not then you should manage the finances and hopefully your good habits will rub off on your spouse.

I find that sharing money with someone is motivation to become financially responsible. Saving for a couple’s vacation, saving for the down payment on your home or budgeting wisely can all come easy when you are doing it with someone that you love.

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Starting a Business Helped Me Get Out of Debt

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(Guest post by Carrie Smith)

When you read most advice online about getting out of debt it comes with two tips: make more money and/or spend less.

So naturally, when I decided I wanted to be debt-free, the first thing I did was look at ways to raise my income.

In my estimation it’s easier to choose this route because — if you do the math — the more money you make, the faster you can pay down your debts.

So I started a side business to boost my income and get out of debt faster. Here’s why!

Starting a side business…

1. Can massively boost your income.

I was already working a full-time accounting job, but I needed something else that would bring in more income throughout the year — not just during tax season.

That’s when I discovered my love of freelance writing, and my solopreneur business was born. I slowly started seeking out clients who needed financial writers for their startup and business blogs.

I have an editing background, so it wasn’t too difficult to research the facts and list out my ideas for each topic. As my skills grew, so did the amount of money I could charge for freelance writing projects — and every penny went towards paying down my consumer debt.

2. Makes you get organized.

There’s no way you can start a business without getting your finances and paperwork in order. The same goes with getting out of debt. You’ve got to create a spending plan (aka budget), write out all your debts, and carve out a roadmap for which ones you’ll start paying off first.

You can’t expect to regain control of your life if you aren’t following an organized plan. This is especially important when managing your time.

You basically have no (social) life when you’re dedicated to paying down debt. It feels like you’re constantly working. In order to keep your sanity, you’ve got to be organized with both your time and money.

Getting organized is essential to running a business and reaching your debt-free goal.

3. Ensures you reach your goal.

Starting a side business — on top of everything else going on our lives — is hard and takes a lot of dedication. Much like getting out of debt.

If you aren’t willing to work hard and do whatever it takes, your business will never succeed, and you’ll never reach your ultimate goal.

Once you have a target, it’s easier to aim, shoot and hit your goal, than if you’re just wandering down a random path. Having a business will give you the jump-start you need, and can help you be debt-free a lot sooner than you originally planned.

That’s what happened to me! After 14 months of working days, nights and weekends, I finally made enough money with my freelance business to pay off all my debt.

It wasn’t easy, but starting a side business was one of the best things I ever did! Not only did it help me reach my financial goal, but I got a better handle on my money overall.

And because I took these steps, I was recently able quit my full-time accounting job and am now officially my own boss. Debt-free and all!

– Carrie Smith is the founder of Careful Cents, a community aimed to help serious solopreneurs and full-time freelancers make valuable connections and grow their businesses. Find her on Twitter @carefulcents.

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Weekly roundup: Baby showers, dividends and giveaways

Good morning Dinks and happy Friday. There is not too much going on in my life right now except this Sunday I am going to another baby shower.  That’s right this weekend is another reminder that I chose my independence over settling down and having a family.

I can’t help but think that my friend is going to be chained to her house with her kid and her husband in less than two months.  I am happy that my friend is about to have her dream come true but at the same time I can’t help but think thank goodness it’s not me.

Have a great weekend Dinks and enjoy these posts and giveaways from around the web:

 

GIVEAWAYS

Take Our Stuff – is giving away a Secret Safe Full of Cash & Jewelry

My Diary Entry – is giving away a box full of luxury makeup and cosmetics

 

PERSONAL FINANCE POSTS

– Investing Answers – Ask The Expert: How Do I Start Profiting From Dividends?

Young Adult Money – Europe on a Budget: Hotspots for Summer 2013

Frugal Rules – Things I Would Never Do: Raid My 401k to Buy Property

Budgeting in the Fun Stuff – Rebranding can help raise your business’ profile

Common Cents Wealth – How to Watch TV Without Cable or Satellite

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