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Tahnya is a Certified Financial Planner and former Investment Advisor turned marketing and communications professional She holds a degree from Concordia University, is debt free and currently works in the field of digital marketing.

I can’t believe I did that in my 20s

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Good morning Dinks.  To say that my financial habits have changed over the last ten years would be the understatement of the year.  Now that I am 33 years old I look back on my financial habits when I was in my 20s and I think to myself  I can’t believe I lived like that.  But you know the crazy thing about the whole scenario…I survived.  So what does that say about my now strict spending and savings habits?

Think about how you used to spend money and how you spend money now.  Have your habits changed or are they still quite similar?

4 habits from my 20s that I grew out of:

1. Spending every last penny.  This was my MO when I was in my 20s.  I would get my pay check, pay some bills and absolutely spend every other penny.  Every two weeks when I got paid there would be absolutely no money in my bank account.  Now that I look back on my old spending habits I wonder how did I survive days at a time without money?  Oh yes that’s right, I lived on credit.

2. Using my credit card for all purchases.  With each pay check I would be playing catch up with my bills and most of my money went to paying rent, utilities and making debt payments.  Then I would be forced to live by using my credit card for all purchases, this is a habit that landed me tens of thousands of dollars in debt.  If there is one financial habit that I have drastically changed over the years, this would be the one.  I am now terrified of using my credit card to the point that paying for even the smallest thing like my groceries stresses me out.  I think it’s safe to say that I learned from my mistakes.

3. Eating out for every meal every day.   This was a habit that I changed over time.  I am not a very good cook and eating out is just so much simpler because there are no dishes involved.  Unfortunately it’s also a much more expensive habit than cooking at home and brown-bagging it for lunch at work.  I have to say that I don’t eat out in restaurants as much as I used to, but I do still grab take out every now and then.  I have my good weeks and bad weeks when it comes to cooking; it’s definitely a work in progress.

4. Paying select bills so I can spend the rest.  OH the good old days.  I was a serious spender and I chose not to pay my bills so I could spend money on clothes, food and going out with friends.  As I grew older I became less social and I am noticing that it is saving me a ton of money.  I would much rather spend my Friday night at the movies other than at a club.  My new monthly bill philosophy is to pay half of each bill with each pay check.  This makes sure that all my bills are paid on time and it doesn’t strain my budget by making lump sum bill payments.

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Choosing the right health and dental insurance: 4 tips to keep in mind

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Good morning Dinks.  Let me ask you a very important questions, do you have private health and dental insurance?  Basically I want to know, when you go to the doctor or the dentist who pays the bill?  I am lucky enough to have health and dental insurance through my employer and although the financial perks are beneficial, it’s not all a bouquet of roses because dealing with insurance companies can be very frustrating.

I recently went to the dentist for my annual checkup and I noticed that the total invoice was over $270 for a 30 minute appointment.  I couldn’t imagine having to pay that expense out of my pocket.  My insurance covers 80% of certain dental expenses so instead of paying $270 I only ended up paying $54 of my own money.

4 tips to help you find the best health and dental insurance:

Find the best rates for your insurance needs.  If you are searching for health and dental insurance websites such as LowestRates.com can be a great source for all your insurance needs.  For example, if you are deciding whether to buy dental insurance or join a dental plan LowestRates.com can help find the best option for you and your family.  Once you decide what type of insurance you want to purchase you need to pick your coverage and coordinate with your spouse. If your spouse also has health and dental insurance options with their employer you will have to decide whose coverage provides the best options.

Learn all about your coverage. More important than the fine print are the details about your coverage.  I personally need more health insurance than I do dental insurance because I only visit my dentist once a year (knock on wood) and I have several monthly medical treatments.  I visit a chiropractor once a week and I take two different monthly prescriptions so I need to find the best health insurance coverage at the lowest possible cost.

Check the fine print. It seems as though insurance companies have more fine print than investment advisors.  I personally don’t like reading fine print but I learned my lesson the hard way.  I went to my dentist for teeth whitening and after paying for the procedure and submitting my claim my insurance company advised me that only a certain amount of cosmetic procedures are covered.  Other fine print details when it comes to health and dental insurance include a mandatory waiting period as well as a pre existing condition clause.

Be patient. Dealing with insurance companies is less than a pleasant experience; it can be long and extremely frustrating.  I had my annual blood work done in July and it took until September for me to get paid by the insurance company.  My insurance company accepts online claims and they kept declining my $370 expense because the photo was too dark or it wasn’t clear enough or there was a glitch with their website and my claim fell through the cracks. I did finally get my refund, but two months is a long time to be out that amount of money.

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Weekly roundup: The holidays, prenups and personal goals

Good morning Dinks.  The holiday season has officially started.  In just over a month Christmas will be here.  Over the next 30 days people all around the world are filling up their calendars with dinner parties, making shopping lists and dipping into their cash savings to find the perfect gift.  I am no different.

This year I am not so much deciding what gifts to buy as oppose to finalizing my plans.  I have a week off during the holidays and I want to take a little vacation.  Have any of you taken a vacation at Christmas.  I have been searching a bit and it seems pretty expensive, even if I leave on December 26 or 27.  I have searched Las Vegas, Florida and New York City; but Boston seems to be the cheapest option – I have a feeling it’s really cold in Boston in December.

I would love some ideas about places to go that won’t cost me a fortune.  Any ideas?

Have a great weekend Dinks.  Enjoy these posts from our friends.

So Over This – The Benefits of International Wealth Management

Rockstar Finance – You Gotta Get a Prenup!

Mr. Money Mustache – Getting Rich: from Zero to Hero in One Blog Post

Money Crush – Make Those Goals Happen (I Did)

Budgets are Sexy – Proof That Getting Out of Debt is VERY Possible

Frugal Portland – Planning for Retirement: Managing Expectations

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Lies people tell themselves on Black Friday

Good morning Dinks.  It’s that time of the year again…this time next week people will be lining up outside stores all across the United States to get the absolutely lowest deals on their favorite products.  That’s right it’s Black Friday time.

Some people take this opportunity to start their holiday shopping and some people wait in line all night to buy items on their own wish list. No matter what your motivation is to endure the craziness of Black Friday shopping all I can say is, you are a better shopper than me.

 

 

 

 

 

What’s on your Black Friday shopping list?

I love a great deal just as good as the next and I would love to go to Walmart Black Friday and buy an iPod Mini for $299, but I just don’t have the stamina to stay up and shop at Walmart into all hours of the night. Although I know people who do.

I have friends who leave work at 5 pm, drive 3 hours to their favourite shopping strip and put their plan in motion to conquer Black Friday.  If you have never experienced Black Friday it’s definitely something to see.  Groups of shoppers scan flyers, plan their routes and keep in communication with walkie-talkies to make sure they get everything on their list.

I am 33 years old and when I am not in my business suits from 9 to 5 I live in hoodies and jeans.  The temptation to visit Aeropostale and stock up on 60% off everything I love to wear on the weekends is definitely alluring, but I can’t stay awake past 11 pm without a nap…not even for a really good deal.  I love the idea of getting discounts and free gifts with purchase; I just can’t stay up all night to do so.

3 lies people tell themselves to justify overspending on Black Friday:

“If I buy it on sale now, I will save money later” If you are heading out for your first Black Friday or if you are a veteran shopper my advice is to make a list (with a set budget) and stick to it.  As a former spend-a-holic I know how tempting it can be to spend money if you think you are getting a good deal.  So avoid that temptation by not straying from your list.

“I waited in line so it’s OK to spend money” Um no that’s not OK.  If you are heading out to shop on Black Friday keep in mind that you are there to save money on your “must have” items, don’t try to convince yourself that you are spending money just because everything is on sale.  Black Friday doesn’t have to be a black hole for your wallet if you control your spending.

“I didn’t mean to spend THAT much money” Oh yes you did.  Some people save money all year and shop only once on Black Friday.  One of my co-workers is actually off this week so she can “prepare” for Black Friday.  At first I thought that sounded like a crazy idea, but if you are going out on Black Friday then at least you should set a plan and have a budget.

What do you want to buy this Black Friday?

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Made money mistakes? 3 tips to help you get back on track

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Good morning Dinks.  Let’s get real for a minute or two.  So your personal financial situation is less than ideal.  So your credit card balance is higher than the balance in your bank account.  So you can’t afford to go on vacation this year. So what? We have probably all been there – I know I have.

But you know what? I have learned that it’s not the current status of your net worth that matters.  What matters is what you are going to do about it. So if your personal financial situation is less than perfect, stop being sad and start doing something about it.  Not tomorrow and not on Monday. Right now, today, start making changes to make your financial life better.

Grab a pen and paper and make a plan to be happy with your money:

How did you get here?  As a financial planner I often hear that people don’t make changes to their spending and savings habits because they can’t admit they have a problem. Debt can bring so much financial stress upon a person and no one likes to be stressed. So as a coping mechanism very often people choose to ignore their current financial state.  When you ignore something you can’t admit there is a problem and you definitely can’t fix it.  So sit down, write down your current financial problems and make a list of everything that you want to change about the money in your life.

Where do you want to be? Once you admit there is a problem you can start to imagine your perfect financial life.  Admitting there is something wrong is the first step, now you have to visualize where you want to be.  Keep in mind that your new financial goals have to be realistic.  If you are $50k in debt your goal shouldn’t be to be a millionaire by the end of the year because that’s just not realistic.  Your goals have to be relative to your personal financial situation including your lifestyle and your income.  If you are $10k in debt you may want to cut that down to $5k by the end of the year. That’s a realistic goal that can be achieved with proper budgeting, a few little sacrifices and the help of a financial planner.

What are you going to do to change it?  Now that you have a clear vision of where you are and where you want to be you can make a plan to start making changes. Set a plan to help you achieve a 6 month goal, a 1 year goal and a 3 year goal.  Your financial situation will not change overnight, but you can start making positive changes right away.  With little changes in your daily life you will start to see the progress over time and that’s a huge motivator.  I advise people to make little, short term goals so they can see their progress and that will help them stay on track.  If you set goals that are too large, unrealistic or too far into the future you may not see the progress right away and that can be discouraging.  So set realistic, short term goals and get your finances on track.

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Why are you investing?

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Good morning Dinks. We are now well into the fourth quarter of the fiscal year and let me ask you – how is your investment portfolio performing?  Maybe your portfolio is outperforming your expectations or maybe it’s falling a little bit short of how you hoped it would perform.

Do you have a pre determined amount of money that you expect to make from your investment portfolio each year?  I know some people who are balanced investors hope to earn 6-8% each year, but of course those are just high hopes.  We all know that in the investment world nothing is guaranteed.

Before you make your next investment – ask yourself these 5 questions:

1. What is the purpose of the investment? When you decide to buy an investment, it can’t just be because you heard it’s a good investment option – it has to have a purpose.  Maybe the purpose of buying precious metals is to diversity your portfolio, maybe you want to buy an emerging markets mutual fund to add some foreign equity into your portfolio and maybe you want to buy a long term bond because you need more security in your portfolio.  Before you buy an investment think about the purpose it serves.

2. Where will I put it? If you have several different investment accounts such as a short term portfolio and a long term portfolio for retirement you have to decide where your new investment choice fits.  Once you know the purpose of your new investment you can decide where to invest it.  Add investments to your portfolio is all about finding a balance, does the new investment compliment one portfolio more than the other?

3. Why am I buying this investment?  Maybe you want to invest in a stock because your neighbor told you that it was a good idea, but that really what’s best for you and your investment portfolio? Maybe, but maybe not.  Before you put more money into the stock market, ask yourself – why am I doing this? Do I need another new investment in the mix or should I just put money into my existing investments?

4. How long do I want to hold it?  Depending on the purpose of your new investment and which account you want to put it in you can decide how long you want to hold the investment.  Very often people buy investments with no clear strategy and just sell it once they make a profit or they buy investments that are suitable for the short term and hold them for the long term because they have no real strategy.  The truth is that you should have the investment strategy first and then buy the right investments to complete the puzzle, not the other way around.

5. Who will buy the investment for you?  You may want to buy the investment yourself, if it’s available.  But if you want an investment that is not open to the public you will have to decide whether to use a discount broker or a full service broker.  Of course the benefit of using a full service broker is the expert advice that comes along with it, and the benefit of using a discount broker is the lower fees.  Before you buy your investment you need to decide which is right for you.

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Weekly Roundup: Savings, Coffee and Big Banks

Good morning Dinks and Happy Friday.  I am really excited because I made it through this whole week only spending $20 on myself.  That’s right for the second week in the row I used my portable Brita bottle to avoid buying juice and bottled water during the day and I brought my lunch and snacks to work every single day (except today) to avoid eating out.

Every morning I buy a breakfast sandwich for $2.25 and I skip the coffee, latte and juice.  That leaves me lunch money to eat out one day.  I still get to eat on the go in the morning and I don’t have to worry about spending $50 or more on food during the week.  Honestly, I thought it would be a lot harder than it is.  I miss the lunches with my friends, but until I am used to the routine I have to avoid temptation.

How much did you spend this week?

Enjoy these great posts from our personal finance friends.  Have a great weekend Dinks.

Money After Graduation  – Increasing Your Net Worth by $25,000 per year on a $50.000 Annual Salary

Rockstar Finance – If You Use a Big Bank, You Deserve to be Treated Like Crap

TeachHer Finance – Sometimes I Wish I Could Go Back To Being A Regular Person

Yes, I Am Cheap – 3 Reasons To Open A Bank Account Online

Fat Guy Skinny Wallet – Bulk Cooking Part 2 – Learning From Our First Experience

Budget Blonde – The Hubs Wins A Money “Discussion”

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4 things people never tell you about being self employed

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Good morning Dinks.  If you are thinking about going into business for yourself, there are definitely some things that you should consider such as the lifestyle difference between a fixed salary and a not guaranteed  monthly income as well as a 9 to 5 job versus a 24/7 time commitment.

If you think that working for yourself equals days full of fun with a hefty pay check to go with it a la Carrie Bradshaw then maybe being self employed is not for you.  I am sure that many self employed professionals would tell you that if that’s what you think being self employed is all about then you have no concept of reality.  I love Sex and the City just as much as the next girl but as a freelance writer I can tell you that Carrie Bradshaw’s fabulous life in NYC is just not real life.

4 myths about being self employed

Clients will find you.  This is probably the biggest myth about being self employed.  Just because you have a website doesn’t mean that people will find you.  When I am looking for new freelance gigs I spend a few days a month scanning websites and sending out emails applying for jobs. My work may be totally great, but it doesn’t matter if no one knows about it.  My best advice to freelancers out there who are looking for work is to think about life before the internet.  Go make friends, attend conferences, make relationships and network to find yourself a job.

You will make money from the first day.  MYTH! Big huge myth. Without the experience to back it up employers will take advantage of your awesome skills.  Whether you are a freelance graphic designer, writer or copy editor, please don’t expect to be making the big bucks at the beginning of your freelance career. No body makes $4 per word per article (Like Carrie Bradshaw at Vogue) right out of the gate.

You will have a lot of free time on your hands to hang out with friends.  Absolutely not true.  Working for yourself means that you are working all day, every day and extra on Sundays – because everything else is closed and you can actually get some work done.  Your phone will always be on and your email will always be open because in the freelance world timing is everything; if you get a job offer you may have a limited amount of time to respond and accept the contract, so when you are self employed you always need to be reachable.

It will be a less stressful work environment.  Think about your biggest critic, who is it? It’s probably you. So imagine the amount of pressure that can build up when working for self.   When you produce work that represents you and your own brand the pressure is on to always be the best.  The financial stress that comes along with being self employed can also be too much to handle for some people.  Until you build a well established portfolio with a loyal client base you may not know where your next pay check is coming from – and this can be very stressful because whether you have an income or not, the bills keep coming in each month.

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How to Be the Female Breadwinner Without Becoming Resentful

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Good morning Dinks.  This is a guest post from Casey at www.GoBankingRates.com. Enjoy!

Women who are financially-independent and the breadwinners in their relationships often find a profound sense of empowerment with each paycheck — but often, that feeling quickly turns to disappointment.

Female breadwinners may feel as if they aren’t crushing any stereotypes at all, but simply falling into the position by default thanks to a pervasive, lackadaisical attitude among the men in their lives. It’s not uncommon for a woman to handle the cooking, cleaning, and financial obligations in her relationship — it can be incredibly disheartening when her significant other, who earns much less, contributes little more than inquiries as to when dinner will be ready.

To ensure that partnership doesn’t lead to resentment, there are a number of steps you can take if you’re the breadwinner.

Female Breadwinners: Dos and Don’ts

Do: Talk openly and early on about money issues

Experts often point to financial issues as the number one cause of problems and break ups in relationships — but that’s not entirely accurate. The real issue in these cases is a lack of communication between partners, and money so happens to be one of those major topics couples would rather not discuss.

However, the only way to ensure resentment and misplaced expectations don’t build up in a relationship, especially when one person in earning and contributing a significantly larger portion of income, is by putting everything out on the table — and early. Open and honest conversation is the key to addressing any resentment a person harbors due to financial strain, and ideally, preventing it in the future.

Don’t: Accept a one-sided situation

Generally, when a woman is the breadwinner in a relationship and struggles with feelings of resentment, it’s because she feels as though her partner is not contributing his fair share. This situation is neither healthy or acceptable.

However, it is not always the financially disadvantaged partner who is totally at fault for those feelings. Once the conversation about money is opened, it can become apparent that clear expectations regarding how each person should contribute were never set in the first place.

Do: Plan for changes to your lifestyle

Of course, life does happen, and it’s not uncommon for couples to find themselves in unexpected periods of lower earnings. April Masini says it’s important to consider your options as a couple when this happens, which include downsizing, cutting back, or changing your lifestyle to preserve cash flow. “These changes can be terrible tests,” she warns, “or they can bring a couple closer together because the couple realizes they’re meeting their changed goals successfully, together.”

Don’t: Compromise your own needs and goals

Even though it’s important for both partners in a relationship to have their perspectives considered, it’s critical the breadwinner also be assertive with her own needs and goals, and not allow the financial shortcomings of her partner to prevent her from reaching them.

For example, if the relationship is so financially strained by one person’s inability to contribute that the breadwinner can’t grow her retirement savings account or pay down expensive debt, it may be necessary to reevaluate whether that relationship is really worth the sacrifice. Sometimes the situation is temporary due to things like health issues or job loss, during which a person may be more willing to compromise. However, when it’s clear that one partner will never fulfill the expectations set forth by the breadwinner, the relationship simply may not work out.

Casey Bond is the managing editor for www.GoBankingRates.com, your source for the best CD rates, savings account rates, personal finance news and more.

 

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After You’ve Decided on Your Life Insurance Policy

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Good morning Dinks.  This is a contribution from Gary at MyLifeInsuranceQuotes123.com. Enjoy.

Comparison shopping and research are known to help consumers find the best value of any product or service. Even though term life insurance is affordable for most families, there are steps that consumers should take to ensure they buy the best coverage with the lowest rates. Since life insurance is usually a long-term commitment, the savings over the life of a policy can be huge with just a little bit of time and energy.

Review The Insurance Company’s Reputation

It is important that a life insurance company is financially stable and able to honor claims made against their policies. If a company becomes insolvent, their policyholders may lose their coverage and be forced to purchase a new policy at an older age. Although the U.S. government would likely prevent an enormous insurance company from collapsing, don’t put yourself in a position of uncertainty.

You can check out A.M. Best and JD Powers to find the best insurance companies, or check out this compiled list of the top life insurance companies.

Look At The Policy Provisions and Conditions

Each type of life insurance policy may not have the same provisions or conditions as other term policies. Consumers should review policy options and terms and conditions from each insurance company. Always be sure to fully understand the coverage you are buying and do not hesitate to ask the agent, broker, or carrier to explain different parts of your contract.

For example, some policies may not pay out for deaths in plane crashes or during hazardous activities; meanwhile, when buying whole life insurance, each provider guarantees a different rate of return. Before purchasing any insurance, customers should know what their policy’s limitations are.

Bait and Switch

Cheap quotes are often used to lure consumers and applicants to an agency that sells life insurance. When individuals ask about the policy, the agent will try to sell them a more expensive term life or whole life policy. The agent will sometimes tell the customer that the advertised policy offered very limited financial protection since it contained more exclusions than standard contracts. This may be true, so customers should ask for a copy of the policy to review, but by no means should you ever immediately purchase coverage from the cheapest company. Like any other product or service, you should always be looking for the best financial value.

Different Low Cost Options

A lower death benefit may make term life coverage more affordable for some people. While not having enough protection is not ideal, it is better than having no life insurance at all. An adjustable life insurance policy gives insured individuals the ability to increase or decrease the death benefit and premiums based on their current financial needs. However, before you adjust any policy, it is critical that you re-evaluate your life insurance needs.

Consider The Death Benefits of Other Life Policies

It is not unusual for employers to offer group life insurance as part of an employee benefit package. It is best to have additional private coverage since the loss of the job means the loss of your policy and potentially higher premium costs for those who do not already have another private policy.

When choosing a death benefit for a private life insurance policy, keep in mind the amount of the death benefit provided by the employee policy and deduct that amount from the total protection necessary to honor financial obligations. There is no need to over-insure your family, but always err on the side of being conservative.

Getting Discounts with Annual Premiums

Since it costs the life insurance company more to process monthly premium payments and annual payments reduce the likelihood of defaults, carriers may offer slight discounts to individuals who prepay insurance premiums quarterly or annually. Compare annual life insurance quotes from different agencies and companies to find discounts. Although monthly premiums may be more convenient, the amount saved by prepaying can really add up over the long-term.

If you’ve purchased life insurance before, what tips or advice would you offer future consumers?

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