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Tahnya is a Certified Financial Planner and former Investment Advisor turned marketing and communications professional She holds a degree from Concordia University, is debt free and currently works in the field of digital marketing.

5 Tips to Help You Avoid Impulse Purchases

money advice, money tips, avoiding impulse purchases

hand through frameEven though I work in personal finance I have made my share of financial mistakes in the past. Actually every now and then I still make financial mistakes, I know they are wrong but I do them anyways.  My most common financial mistake is making impulse purchases. Whether I am at the pharmacy, the grocery store, or a convenience store I am always tempted to make an additional purchase that I don’t really need.

As I wait in line to pay for my regular purchases I am always looking around to see what last minute items I can pick up as an impulse purchase.  Usually my impulse purchases consist of magazines, gum, chocolate (before my 40 day sacrifice for Lent), and candy.  However I have also been known to pick up nail polish, batteries, and multiple rolls of toilet paper if they are on sale.

I can always find an excuse to justify my impulse purchases. I usually tell myself that it is better to buy them now if they are on sale rather than paying full price for an item when I actually need it because then it may not be on sale. But the more that I think about it, isn’t that the personal motto of hoarders?

Here are 5 Tips to Help You Avoid Impulse Purchases

– Don’t Browse Around. When we wander around a store aimlessly it can only lead to us finding (and purchasing) items that we want but don’t need.  It is always best to visit the isles in the store that have our items and nowhere else, this way we can try to avoid impulse purchases.

– Choose The Shortest Line or Use Self Check Out. If we spend the least amount of time possible waiting in line at the checkout then we avoid impulse purchases. If we don’t have a lot of time to browse the items at the checkout then we will be less likely to purchase a magazine, chocolate, gum, or any other miscellaneous impulse purchases.

– Don’t Ask the Sales People for Help. I am the Queen of wanting things that I don’t need. Sales people can usually convince me that I need anything. Once I went to Best Buy for a $10 phone cord and came out with a new $79 cordless phone.  Try to avoid sales people at all costs to avoid impulse purchases.

– Make a List. The key to avoiding impulse purchases is to be organized. We should try to go into a store and come out with only the items that we need and only with the items that are on our list.  Having a list and a plan avoids browsing, searching, and impulse purchases.

– Try Not To Shop With Friends. Friends are almost as bad as Sales People at convincing us that we need (or want) something. I love spending a day walking around and shopping with friends, but when we use shopping as a past time we end up spending money that we could have saved.

What is the excuse you use to justify your impulse purchases?

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What is Your Ideal Income?

income advice, job advice, career tips

Good Morning DINKS.  As dual income no kids couples we all have jobs and we all earn an income.  We recently discussed why we all work so much; maybe we all work so much in order to save money, maybe it’s because we really love our job, or maybe we all work so much just to pay our monthly bills and maintain our current lifestyle. Today I want discuss the fruits of our labour, let’s examine our current income and how much that income is worth.

For some of us our income may just be a means to an end, it may be the source that helps us pay our bills each month.  For some of us our income is the source of a lavish lifestyle that allows us to take vacations, buy a home, save for retirement, and purchase a car.  For some others our income is a direct reflection of our personal skills, professional qualities, and education.

Why is your income so important?

Our income is basically our financial lifeline. Our income determines our quality of life, our savings capacity, as well as our disposable monthly income.  Our quality of life includes where we live, what we eat, how we enjoy our free time, and when we can afford to go on vacation.  Our quality of life can also determine who we chose to spend our free time with, because people with similar lifestyles and spending habits tend to spend time together.

For some people income may not just be a means to an end, it may actually be a dream that we are working towards.  Maybe some of us are working towards achieving our ideal income because it is a dream lifestyle that we hope to someday achieve.

Do you feel that your income represents your professional qualities?

Our income may be a direct reflection of our personal skills, professional qualities, and education.  I know some young professionals who have declined an offer for their dream job because they didn’t feel that the income was a direct reflection of all the skills and qualities that they could bring to the corporate table.  Corporations do not always offer an annual income that reflects an employees personal skills and professional qualities.  Corporations usually low ball their annual income offer because they are trying to get the best employees at the lowest possible cost.  Unfortunately this could make employees feel undervalued.

What is your ideal income?

Maybe your ideal income is a specific number such as $150,000 per year.  Maybe your ideal income is a number that is unheard of in your field.  Maybe your ideal income is a number that represents a dream lifestyle that you want to have. Or maybe your ideal income represents exactly how much you think your personal skills and professional qualities are worth as an employee.

If your ideal income is a direct reflection of your skills and qualities as an employee does it represent what you currently bring to the table with your past experience, or does it represent the future growth of the type of employee that you potentially want to be?

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Friday Roundup: Eyes, Taxes, and Life

Happy Friday DINKS.  It’s Friday April 20th and in 5 days I am having eye surgery.  My right eye is crossed and has been this way since birth.  After 31 years of having crossed eyes (or as my parents say a lazy eye) there is finally some new technology that can improve the look (and straightness) of my eyes.

This eye surgery is purely esthetic; it will not correct my eye prescription or vision.  I am not nervous about my surgery; I am actually more excited than anything else. I can’t believe that I am actually going to be able to wear contact lenses without be self conscious about the way that my eyes look.  The only thing that I am a little bit scared about is going under the general anesthetic.  I am a little bit scared that the general anesthetic won’t be effective and that I may be awake surgery. But that is just my own little fear, I am sure that it won’t happen.

Have a great weekend DINKS and enjoy these posts from around the web:

– Budgets Are Sexy asks “How Far Would You Go To Pick Up a Penny?”

– Adaptu wants to know if you are superstitious in the post “Life Insurance on Your Partner: Smart Move or Bad Omen?”

– Money Ning talks about the dreaded income tax season in the post “Taxes Hurt, Even Deductions Sometimes…”

– Enemy of Debt confirms financial individuality in the post “Debt Freedom Is Not One Size Fits All”

– Credit Karma helps us become financially healthy in the post “4 Ways to Get a Better Credit Score Now”

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4 Easy Ways to Save Money at the Grocery Store

grocery tips, saving money at the groceries, frugal grocery

I don’t know about you, but a huge part of my weekly and monthly budgets is spent on food.  After housing costs my biggest expense each month is spent on food. Grocery shopping, take-out food and dining out in restaurants can add up to a lot of money on a daily, weekly, and monthly basis. Of course grocery shopping is the most cost efficient option for our monthly budget, but ordering take-out food is the most convenient option, and dining out in restaurants is definitely the most fun option, but unfortunately it is also the least budget friendly option.

Even though grocery shopping is the most cost efficient and budget friendly food option, it is only efficient if you know how to (or are willing to make the effort to) cook.  If we buy groceries and then they never become ingredients in a meal, the cost of groceries can end up being a waste of money if we just end up throwing them in the garbage because they are unused. MSN Money  recently published an article that gives shoppers tips to help them save money while grocery shopping.

Here are some helpful tips from MSN on how to save money at the grocery store:

1. Shop on the same day. Most stores start their weekly sales on the same day every week.  If the new weekly flyer at your grocery store comes out every Saturday then we can plan our shopping around that day.  There is no point in shopping on Monday and Friday of the same week because the sales will be the exact same on both days.

2. You Don’t Have to Buy No Name Brands.  Sometimes buying a no name product brand is cheaper in cost, but the quality is not always up to par. Buying no name brands can actually end up costing us more money because when the quality of the no name brand is not good we may end up going back to the grocery store and buying the name brand product with the higher quality.  I always buy name brand condiments and canned goods such as Heinz Ketchup and Campbell’s Soup because the quality of the no name brand is just not tasty.

3. The Family Size is Not Always Cheaper. Buying in bulk can definitely be cost efficient, but only if we have enough people in our family to use the product.  As DINKS buying the family sizes of products that expire may not be cost efficient because we may end up wasting the unused products and produce.  Buying in bulk is most efficient for everyday products that do not expire such as toilet paper, laundry detergent, paper towels, and dish soap.

4. Think Outside the Box (or the Paper).  Checking our weekly store flyer for deals and discounts on our items is a great way to save money.  However, deals and discounts may persuade us to buy items that we don’t actually need.  Discounts are only a good deal if we need the product; otherwise we are just spending money that we could otherwise save.  Not all discounts are published in the weekly flyer. I very often find some of my favourite items on sale just by cruising up and down the aisles at the supermarket.

How do you save money at the grocery store?

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Should we just be happy with what we have?

happiness, being happy, ethics

Good Morning DINKS.  I was recently reviewing my 5 Year Personal Plan as well as my Personal Bucket List of things that I want to do in my life.  I suddenly realized that a lot of my personal goals involve improving on existing aspects of my life. It made me start thinking, are we ever really happy with what we have or are we always working towards improving some aspect of our life?

Marriage

Although I am not married I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a very long time.  I am thankful that I found someone who has shared 12 years of my life with me but unfortunately our relationship is not perfect. I often wonder if I should just be happy that I found someone who loves me or should I want to find my absolute perfect match with a man who shares my personal goals and dreams? I wonder if I should appreciate the man that my boyfriend has become instead of always trying to improve aspects of our relationship.

Car and Home

For some people a fancy car and an expensive home are symbols of status.  The bigger the home and the more expensive the car means that we are making more money. Do you compare your current home value, purchase price, and home decor with your neighbours, co-workers, and friends? Maybe you bought a luxury car because that is just how you roll, or maybe you bought it because your friends also drive a Lexus, a BMW, or a Mercedes Benz. Maybe you bought your home in a neighbourhood that has a certain prestige, or maybe you bought your home in a neighbourhood that offered the best value for your money.  In my opinion a bigger home means a more expensive mortgage payment and more dust to clean, I am definitely not interested.

Investments and Savings

We may compare our Net Worth’s and the value of our investments with those of our friends, family, and co-workers, but why? Maybe we share our investment strategy because we feel that it can really help out our friends and family, or maybe we share the value of our Net Worth because it is an ego trip.  Personal finance is just that, it’s personal, so why do we always feel the need to invest more money, but more stocks, and try to invest in the next big thing?

Income

People often value themselves based on their annual income. Whenever we negotiate our salary with a new employer or we negotiate our salary during our annual employee review with our current employer we may always want to earn a higher income.   Maybe we always strive to have a higher income because we all need money to live, or maybe we always strive to have a higher income because we always strive to have more.  We know that a better job with a higher income is out there and we are always working towards achieving more and earning more money.

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Friday Roundup: Mortgages, Taxes, & Bad Luck

Happy Friday the 13th Everyone.  Do you think that Friday the 13th is good luck or bad luck? I personally am a little bit superstitious and therefore I try not to do very much on Friday the 13th, just in case it goes wrong and something bad happens.  Some people think that Friday the 13th is actually good luck, but I won’t be walking under any ladders or crossing paths with any black cats today…just in case.

DINKS Finance has some good news to share with you on this historically bad day. We are currently giving away a copy of the book Dream Save Do by Warren Talbot.  All you have to do to win a copy of this inspiring book is leave a comment on this post and tell us the best or worst thing that has happened to you over the past year.

Good Luck to everyone who enters our contest to win a copy of the book Dream Save Do by Warren Talbot.

Enjoy some of our favourite posts from around the web:

– Money Under 30 helps us invest in real estate in the post “How To Get A Mortgage For A Rental Property”

– PT Money helps us save for retirement in the post “401k Loan vs. Personal Loan or Debt Consolidation”

Bankrate is giving away a $5000 cash prize to one lucky winner in their Kiss My Assets contest. Be sure to enter for your chance to win.

– Investor Junkie  gets ready to file income taxes in the post “When Should You Hire Someone Else To Do Your Taxes?”

– Passive Income Now  talks about the dangers of being online in the post “How Social Media Can Ruin You”

– Clever Dude answers some puzzling questions in the post “How to handle a 2nd Mortgage with Balloon Payment”

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Is everything better in the suburbs?

living in the suburbs, lifestyle, suburb lifestyle

suburb parking lot

Good Morning DINKS.  My boyfriend Nick and I are a city couple. We currently live on the 21st floor of a high rise building in the downtown core of our city.  Since Nick and I are both from out of town when we first moved here 11 years ago we decided that living downtown would be the smartest idea.

Living downtown allowed us to be close to everything including our schools and the downtown shopping core as well as local amenities such as grocery stores, pharmacies, and video stores.  Now that we are both young professionals we still continue to live in the same neighbourhood because it still offers convenience and it is now also close to both of our office buildings.

We can walk to and from work without paying for a monthly public transportation pass, relying on a bus and subway schedule, or paying a monthly parking fee. When we walk to and from work we can pick up groceries or movies on the way home.  I absolutely love living downtown for the convenience, but as we get older I have to wonder if I am missing something by not buying a house and moving to the suburbs?

The thought of paying for and maintaining a big house in the suburbs does not appeal to me whatsoever, even if the property values may be cheaper than buying a small condo in the city. The upkeep of a house in the suburbs can be overwhelming and a lot of work.  I can’t imagine either my boyfriend Nick or I shovelling snow in the winter or cutting grass in the summer.  However, the thought of having a big house with a lot of space is very tempting.  The other aspect about the suburbs that I absolutely love is the convenience and variety of shopping.

Even though I live downtown every weekend Nick and I do our weekly shopping in the suburbs at stores such as a mega grocery store and Wal-Mart. I enjoy discount shopping and I love buying necessity items such as toilet paper, cleaning supplies, and other household items on sale.  This type of shopping is only available in the suburbs.  Unfortunately we don’t find many Wal-Marts and Home Depot stores downtown.  The shopping choices are definitely limited when you live in the downtown core.

The catch about living and shopping in the suburbs is that you definitely need to have a car.  It can be very difficult to get around the suburbs on foot and it is hard to buy a 24 pack of toilet paper if you have to carry it home on foot. If you have a car then shopping in the suburbs is definitely less expensive than shopping in the city.  In the suburbs we have the luxury of driving to our store of choice, when we shop in the downtown core everything is more expensive because we are paying for convenience.

Where do you shop and why?

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Why I Love Being a DINK

being a dink, dinks, couples tips

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Good Morning DINKS.  Let me ask you a question, what do you love about being a DINK? Is it the fact that you have extra free time to focus on your career and relationships since you don’t have kids? Or is it the fact that you have the freedom to do things that families with kids may otherwise not be able to do?

I love being a DINK because I like having the support of my boyfriend. I like knowing that I have someone to come home to, even though sometimes I just want to be alone. I like knowing that I can rely on someone else in case I am ever in an unmanageable situation, even though I am mostly independent. I also like knowing that I have someone to talk with when I am making a big decision, even though my boyfriend very often remains neutral because he hates drama.

Why Do You Love Being in a Dual Income No Kids Relationship?

1. We Can Share the Expenses.  Having two incomes in a relationship is definitely a financial benefit because all of our regular expenses are cut in half. If one spouse ever looses their job it can be a very scary situation, however there is comfort in knowing that our spouse can pay the expenses temporarily until we find another job.

2. We Can Both Contribute Towards Savings.  If we are saving up for a major purchase such as a vacation, new appliances, a new car, or even a new home we can achieve our savings goals in half of the time because we have two incomes contributing towards the savings. We will still eventually achieve our savings goals if we were single, but it just might take double the time.

3. We Have Double the Income.  Double the income means that we can spend more on our monthly living expenses.  With dual incomes we can live a more lavish lifestyle if we chose to do so. I am definitely not saying that we should spend all of our disposable income, but if we chose to splurge every now and then the financial impact does is not as devastating as it would be if we were single with only one income.

4. We Have Someone to Rely On. This is a major advantage to being a DINK.  I like knowing that I can rely on my boyfriend  (most of the time) and that there are no little children who are relying on me.  I would absolutely do anything for my boyfriend, I would go out of my way for him, and I don’t mind being inconvenienced (sometimes) for him.  However since he is a grown man it is very rare that he calls in favours.  Unfortunately I cannot say the same for kids.  I would definitely take care of my boyfriend if he needed me to, but I don’t know that I can say that I would have the same commitment for helpless children who constantly need to be watched over and taken care of.  I guess that’s why my boyfriend Nick and I do not have children.

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Do you consider yourself to be “Working Class” ?

career tips, job advice, career advice

dog manHello DINKS.  Yesterday a colleague of mine at our bank branch made a comment about “working class” people.  I wasn’t personally offended by the comment, but it did make me start thinking about our society and how people view each other in different professions. Is it possible that in 2012 we are actually still living in a society defined by classes?

My colleague looked out of a window at our bank branch at the traffic flow on the street and said “What are all of these people doing out in the middle of the day? Don’t they have jobs?” My immediate response to him was “They may be on vacation or they may be shift workers who are on their way to work or just finishing their shift.”

The concept of shift work is not foreign to me. I grew up a household where one parent worked rotating weekly shifts in a factory and the other parent worked 9 to 5 in an office.  The thought didn’t even occur to my colleague that there is an entire working world outside of a 9 to 5 work week.  He comes from a family where both parents work 9 to 5 in an office and people who work in factories, retail stores, and other “blue collar” positions are in a class below them.




My father worked rotating shifts in a factory for 30 years.  He earned a very good salary that supported a family with two young children who grew up to both graduate from university.  The medical and dental benefits were paid by the company which came in helpful when my sister and I needed braces to straighten our teeth or medication when we were sick.  Overtime was always a paid option at a rate of time and a half for employees who worked in the factory.  If my father chose to work on the weekends he was paid overtime at a rate of double his normal hourly wage.

My mother worked 9 to 5 in an office.  It is very possible that the working environment was more pleasant in an office environment than it was working in a factory, but the benefits were not necessarily comparable. My mother often put in extra hours at the office in hopes of advancing her career, but she was never compensated for her overtime. In your opinion what differentiates a “Blue Collar” worker from a “White Collar” worker? Maybe it is the annual salary, maybe it is the place of work, or the working environment, or maybe it is determined based on the extra employee benefits.

The concept of different classes is slightly more complicated than the difference between an office building and a factory.  People often determine classes based not only on our place of work and our type of work, but also our annual salary and our position title.  I think that it is very offensive (not to mention extremely rude) to call someone “working class”. If we all have jobs and if we all work aren’t we all “working class”?

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Friday Roundup: IRAs, Emergencies, and Mary Poppins

cupcakeHappy Friday DINKS, and Happy Easter to those who are celebrating this holiday. 

My 40 day chocolate fast is officially over.  As you read this post I am probably enjoying a big chocolate cupcake from Magnolia cupcakes in New York City.  I am in New York City until Sunday night and I have lots of fun activities planned for my 3 day trip to New York City.

Later today I have an appointment at my local TD Bank branch to open a savings account, this afternoon I am getting my tattoo at In Born NYC Tattoo shop with Chris Torres (from NY Ink), and tomorrow night I am going to see the musical Mary Poppins on Broadway.

I hope that you all have a great weekend.  Enjoy our favourite posts from around the web this week:

– So Over Debt helps us prepare for an emergency in the post “Are You Proactive or Reactive”

– Careful Cents encourages us to save for retirement in the post “5 Little Known Facts About a Roth IRA”

– Modest Money  brings out the entrepreneur in us in the post “Starting A Side Business”

Adaptu helps couples adjust in the post “Money and Moving in Together: What You Need to Know”

– Financial Samurai says that maybe retirement savings are not a good strategy in the post “Disadvantages Of The ROTH IRA: Not All Is What It Seems”

– Get Rich Slowly confirms that business should not be personal in the post “Getting Emotional About Money”

– Eemusings is fed up and moving forward in the post “Personal finance topics I’m so over”

– Budgets Are Sexy reviews the features and benefits of our Credit Cards in the post “What’s Your Favorite (or Best) Credit Card?”

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