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Tahnya is a Certified Financial Planner and former Investment Advisor turned marketing and communications professional She holds a degree from Concordia University, is debt free and currently works in the field of digital marketing.

How to Tell If Your Credit Card is Dangerous to Your Financial Health

credit card, financial health, credit card advice

(Guest Post by Benjamin Feldman)

Credit cards are so common these days that it seems perfectly normal to pull one out and swipe it at the gas station, the grocery store, a restaurant, or anywhere else. It’s more convenient than using cash, and there are several other benefits (such as rewards, building credit, enhanced security) that seem to make it worthwhile.

But is using credit cards as harmless as it seems?

Not necessarily. The truth is, credit card usage depends upon your individual personality and your relationship with money. For some people, using credit cards can in fact be dangerous. Why? Because the cards might make it too easy to spend more (perhaps way more) than what you can really afford.

Consider that the credit limit on many credit cards ranges anywhere from $3,000 up to $30,000. With that kind of debt available at your fingertips, there is a very real possibility of spending yourself into a massive financial hole. When you realize that many Americans have little to no savings in the first place, it’s easy to see how credit cards can pose a problem for anyone. Balances can start small and innocent but creep up over time, and before you know it you’ve got a problem on your hands.

So how do you know if you are using your cards the right way or the wrong way? Read on…

How to Tell If You’re at Risk

The way credit cards can hurt your finances is by making spending too easy. That means, even if you think you’re a responsible credit card user, you may be buying things more frequently (or at higher prices) than you otherwise would.

For example, I realized earlier this year that my credit cards were making it too easy for me to eat out (for lunch during the week and dinner on the weekend). It felt like a small indulgence but I rationalized it and the credit card made it easy to carry on without confronting the real cost of my eating habits. When I finally took a hard look at how much I was spending on food, I was shocked.

That’s how credit cards can trick you.

Even the most diligent of us can get fooled – or lulled into thinking we’re being very frugal when in reality we’re letting some unnecessary expenses slip through the cracks each month. Remember, part of the problem is that you think your spending is okay. So we need some alternative ways to check ourselves.

If you’re already using credit cards, here are several exercises you should try that will give you insight into whether you should be worried about them compromising your finances:

Audit your savings and emergency fund: How much money are you saving up each month? Ideally, you should identify a certain percentage of your income as a goal and then try to set aside that much every month in a savings account or investment account. If you haven’t been saving at all, that’s a red flag that could indicate a potential problem with credit card spending. If you have been saving, that’s a good sign, but is it enough? Many experts recommend saving at least 10% of your income per month. If you’re well short of that, it’s possible your credit card spending is the culprit.

Look back at your spending for last month: Print out your credit card or bank statement and go through all your spending for last month (or even the last 3 months). Tally up how much you spent on each category, like food, clothes, travel, entertainment, etc. Once you’ve got the totals in front of you, it’s time for a gut check. Is this a reasonable amount, or are you overspending? If the totals seem high, that’s another red flag.

Try using cash for a week: Take your credit cards out of your wallet or purse (or vow not to use them) and get enough cash to cover all your expenses for a week. Then track your spending during the week and, more importantly, track how you feel about your purchases. If it suddenly feels harder to spend money, or if you spend less than usual, that’s a sign that credit cards are distancing you from the ‘pain’ of spending. And that’s another red flag.

If you’re seeing several red flags, then there’s a good chance your credit cards are dangerous (or at least a hinderance) to your long-term financial health. But if that’s the case, don’t worry – you’re not alone. And there are some concrete steps you can take to avoid credit cards.

What Alternatives Are There?

Okay, so let’s say you did the exercises in the steps above and realize you do have a credit card problem. What can you do? Well, luckily, there are some alternatives to using credit cards.

The most obvious alternative is to permanently switch to using cash. But it doesn’t need to be as basic as simply taking out cash from the ATM whenever you run out and need to buy something. Instead, try using the envelope system. The envelope system works like this: at the beginning of each month (or week) you withdraw enough cash for that time period. Then, you divide the cash amongst various envelopes, according to your budget. For example, if your budget looks like this:

Groceries: $400

Eating out: $100

Entertainment: $75

Clothing: $50

MIsc.: $50

You would take out 5 envelopes, write a different category on each one, and put the corresponding amount of money in each envelope. Each day, you take enough money from each envelope to pay for the things you’ll need during that day. This way, you know exactly what you are spending money on, and there is no way for it to disappear unexpectedly on things you weren’t planning to buy.

Another alternative is to use a debit card instead of a credit card. You put limited money in the debit card account each month, and when it’s gone you don’t get to spend anymore. In fact, you can use a hybrid version of the envelope system described above by simply keeping a tally of your expenses throughout the month.

With debit cards, you can have the convenience of plastic payment without the hassle of carrying cash – and without the risk of running up debt. Of course, for some people the positive psychological effect of using cash (greater awareness of your spending) may not be felt as strongly with a debit card. But theoretically it should have almost the same impact.

Conclusion

The good news is now that you’ve identified whether you have a problem with credit cards, you can take action if necessary to help your financial picture improve!

One last bit of advice: if you already have debt on your credit card, you should immediately calltoseeifyoucanloweryourinterestrate(s). That move alone could end up saving you hundreds of dollars in finance charges. Also, for more money-saving tips, check out the ReadyForZero resource centers on CreditCardDebt and BudgetingTips. And when you’ve paid off the credit cards, remember not to close the accounts (unless you think you’ll continue to be tempted) because doing so will hurt your credit score.

Best of luck!

Benjamin Feldman is a personal finance expert at ReadyForZero, a visually-compelling web app that helps people get out of debt (for free) by giving them a plan and motivating information – like how much interest they’re paying per day. Follow him at @BWFeldman and read more of his work at the ReadyForZeroblog.

 

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Weekly Roundup: Fall, Writing, and the 47%

Happy Friday Dinks. It’s October 12 and Fall is officially upon us. I absolutely love Fall because my birthday is in October and so is Halloween. Fall also means that three quarters of the year are over and it’s a good time to check in on your new years resolutions and check the progress on your personal goals.

If your New Year’s resolution was to save  more money, how much money have you saved? If your New Year’s resolution was to get healthy, how much weight have you lost? Check in on your goals and let us know how you are doing.

Enjoy these great posts from around the web:

– Credit Karma – A Second Chance at Financial Freedom

– Budgets Are Sexy – You May Have a Higher Net Worth Than Our Vice Prez!

– Joe Taxpayer – A Letter to the 47%ers

– Budgeting in the Fun Stuff – Build a Home Series-Looks Like a Home! Almost There!

– Clever Dude – Sometimes you just need to STOP

– So Over This – Why I Write

 

Photo by borman

 

 

The Cost to Fall In Love and Get Married.

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Good Morning Dinks. Let’s all take a moment and think back to the time before we were Dinks. Think about dating, think about being single, and think about how much money you spent while you were courting (aka trying to impress) your future spouse and trying to make them fall in love with you.

Do you know how much money it costs to fall in love? According to MSN Money it costs over $300,000 to meet someone, date, get engaged, get married, and have kids. This includes the cost of dining in restaurants throughout the year, gifts for special occasions, the cost of a wedding, and a romantic honeymoon.

Did you ever wonder how much your spouse costs? Let’s take a closer look.

Where did you go on your first date?

My boyfriend Nick and I went to a coffee shop for our first official date.  He ordered an orange juice and I ordered a white hot chocolate (even though it was August).  Our first date didn’t cost a lot of money and I honestly really enjoyed myself…we are still together 13 years later.  It was a cheap first date, it was in a public setting so I knew that I was safe, and we got the chance to sit down, talk, and really get to know each other.

For our second date Nick and I went to a TLC concert.  Before you laugh remember that Nick and I met in 1998 when I was 18 and he was 19.  The TLC No Scrubs song and concert tour was very popular at the time. Music is one thing that Nick and I have always had in common. We don’t always like the same types of music, because his taste in music is more eclectic than mine, but we both always love to be listening to music.

What is the price of your engagement ring?

I can’t speak about the cost of an engagement ring from personal experience because Nick and I are not married, but I can say that my engagement ring doesn’t have to be extravagant. It has to be something that I know he picked out specifically for me and to my taste in jewellery. I haven’t shopped around for an engagement ring lately but I would like to think that a good quality white gold ring with a square diamond in the middle should cost approximately $3000.

Now for the question that is on everyone’s mind, it’s a question that we have previously discussed on Dinks Finance, should you give back the engagement ring if you break up before the wedding?

How much did your wedding cost?

There are two girls in my office right now who are planning their weddings for next summer. If you have ever been in the same room as a bride-to-be you know that her wedding is usually the only thing that she is capable of talking about.  I was very surprised to learn that one of the girls in my office is going to spend over $25,000 on her wedding next summer. I was even more surprised to learn that in her opinion $25,000 is the bare minimum amount of money to be spent if you want a semi-fabulous wedding.

We know from a previous post that the range of a wedding can differ greatly among couples. If I ever do get married I would like to have a white dress, I would like DJ Ty Boogie to be the DJ at my wedding, and I would love to have a 3 tier chocolate cake.  However,  I would much rather spend $25,000 on something that my boyfriend Nick and I can enjoy for the rest of our life together, rather than on a party that is only going to last for one night.

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Budget-Friendly Couples Vacations

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Good Morning Dinks.  Let me ask you a question, where did you go for your last vacation? There are few places in the world where couples can actually get away by themselves without their kids. Many hotels and resorts thrive on the fact that they are family-friendly destinations.  If you are Dinks and you are planning to have kids in the future I suggest that you take advantage of your couples vacations now because once you have children your vacations become about theme parks, amusement parks, and family-friendly destinations.

Wouldn’t it be nice to just get away and have a couples retreat?

Our good friends at Adaptu have shared some great money saving tips to help all couples afford a romantic getaway that they deserve.

Use these money saving tips for your next couples vacation:

1. Travel Off Season. It may not be ideal to travel to certain destinations during hurricane season or during the winter, but if you travel just before a peak vacation season you can save a lot of money.  Travelling during the holidays is always very expensive. I like to travel in May or in September because tourist season is over or has not yet begun and the weather is still nice. I don’t like travelling in the summer because it’s way too hot and cities are overcrowded. We have images associated with certain locations (example: Canada brings winter and snow to mind, whereas Thailand triggers thoughts of jungle and tropical beaches), but don’t be afraid to break the mold and take the road less travelled. Not only will it save you a lot of money, but it may force you to think outside the box and experience new and original things. Sure, you may not be able to spend as much time in the water if you book a Bangkok hotel in the winter, but you will get to explore temples, ruins, and the more ancient side of Thailand with less heat and humidity. Besides there are beaches everywhere.

2. Consider a Bed and Breakfast.  I prefer to travel to city destinations; therefore I have never stayed at a country bed and breakfast, but the idea seems cozy.  If you have stayed at a country inn or a bed and breakfast I would love to hear about your experience. Apparently it’s a lot cheaper than staying at a large hotel chain.

3. Use Your Frequent Flier Miles.  This is a great way to book a cheaper vacation.  However if you are a member of too many reward programs it can take forever for your points to add up.  The key to earning free rewards is to enroll in only a few elite programs, as an example have a credit card that offers travel rewards and travel insurance and then have a frequent flier miles card with one airline and a customer loyalty/discount membership with one hotel chain.  If you are always flying with the same airline and staying at the same hotel your rewards will add up very quickly.

4. Be Careful About Hidden Fees.  Using frequent flier miles is definitely beneficial and can lower your costs, however using frequent flier miles doesn’t guarantee that your flight will be free. Even though your actual flight may be free when you use your frequent flier miles many companies still require clients to pay the taxes on the flight. Another common travel fee is the expense for luggage. Many airlines charge clients who check extra bags or luggage that exceeds the normal weight.

5. Foreign Currency Exchange.  Using your credit cards and ATM cards while travelling overseas can be very costly. The fees associated with exchanging currency in a foreign country can also be very expensive because they take advantage of tourists. It is best to exchange your money at your local bank branch before travelling.  Many banks require clients to order foreign currency at least three days in advance.

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Weekly Roundup: Bad Habits, Bad Debts, and Good Health

Good Morning Dinks and Happy Friday.

This is a very special weekend for me because it’s my birthday weekend and it’s also Canadian Thanksgiving.

On Tuesday October 9 I am turning 32 years old and I am actually excited about it. With the break-up of my family in 2010 and my extreme hatred for the step witch (aka my dad’s girlfriend) my last two birthday’s have not been really great, but this year it’s different.

I like to measure my personal success each year on my birthday and I have to say that so far 2012 has been a great year for me. I went to two different blogging conferences, I am working on my first book and I hope to have it finished by December 31.  I am back in school studying journalism, and I went to New York City twice, so all in all 2012 has been a great year.

I hope you all have a great weekend and happy thanksgiving to our Canadian Dinks.

Enjoy these great posts:

– Ramit Sethi – How To Change a Bad Habit

– The Web Ninja – When Should You Send Out Your Blog Posts?

– Kylie Ofiu – Fit for FinCon Update

– Careful Cents – The Real Truth About Debt Settlement

– Frugal Beautiful – Frugal Feature: The Payday Loan Reality

– The Simple Dollar – Find Areas of Mutual Interest That Don’t Involve Spending Money

 

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Prenuptial Agreements: It’s Better Safe Than Sorry

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Love and Money, Marriage Money, a Couple’s Budget, no matter how you say it one topic that is always current in every relationship from dating to marriage is money. According to H&R Block a shocking 49% of divorced people said that they expect to argue about money in their relationships.

Whenever you share your life and your money with someone I think it’s safe to say that arguments are a given.  No relationship is perfect and not everyone manages their money in the same way, this can lead to conflict and potentially an argument.  You know what they say about a conflict…what happened in the past doesn’t matter; it’s what you do next that counts.

If you argued about money in a previous relationship you may want to protect yourself in your next relationship with a prenuptial agreement.  Of course a prenuptial agreement will not eliminate money arguments in your day to day relationship, but if the relationship ever comes to an end at least you and your money will be protected.

MSN recently published an article about celebrity couples, their relationships, and their money.  I am always surprised when I hear about celebrities who don’t have a prenuptial agreement.  I am especially surprised when I hear about celebrities who don’t have a prenuptial agreement especially when they marry people with less money or people who may not work.

Do you know which celebrity didn’t have a prenuptial agreement?

– Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise did have a prenuptial agreement and therefore Katie Holmes will not be receiving half of Tom Cruise’s fortune.  However it is reported that Tom Cruise may have to pay $400,000 a year in child support.

– Kelsey Grammar and Playboy model Camille Donatacci did not have a prenuptial agreement when they got married because Grammar did not have any money at the time.  However, over their 14 years of marriage the couple amassed quite a fortune.  Last year when the couple divorced Donatacci received a reported $30 million dollars in the divorce settlement.

– Britney Spears and Kevin Federline did have prenuptial agreement; this was especially helpful for Britney when the couple divorced after only two years of marriage.  Regardless of her personal fortune, Spears only had to pay Federline $1 million after their divorce.

– Madonna and Guy Ritchie did not have a prenuptial agreement and therefore Ritchie received between $76 and $92 million during their divorce.  Unfortunately Madonna learned her love lesson the hard way.

– Paul McCartney and Heather Mills had one of the most publicized divorce settlements in history. After only 4 years of marriage Mills received $50 million from the former Beatle in their divorce settlement.  That’s an average of $12.5 million per year, not a bad pay day for a former model turned Dancing with the Stars contestant.

– Jennifer Lopez married backup dancer Cris Judd in 2002 and the couple divorced after only nine months of marriage.  Unfortunately Lopez went into the marriage with her heart and not with her head.  Nine months of marriage cost Lopez $15 million in a divorce settlement.

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For more on prenups, go here and here.

Weekly Roundup: Couples, Heartbreak and Quality of Life.

Happy Friday Dinks.  October is very close and that means that my birthday is only 11 days away.  This year I am deciding if I should stick to my normal birthday routine of getting my hair and nails done combined with a little bit of birthday shopping and a slice of cheesecake, or if I should spend my birthday with my girlfriends in New York City.

You all know that I am absolutely in love with NYC but I have already been there twice this year and I just got home from FinCon12 in Denver just a few weeks ago.  I am not sure if my financial conscience will let me take another trip this year.  Next year I am planning on attending BlogHer13 in Chicago along with Blissdom Canada in Toronto and FinCon13 or The Savvy Blogging Summit, depending on the locations; therefore I really need to save money for next year. However, I never like to pass up a chance to go to NYC and because we would be four girls who are travelling the trip will be very cheap.

What do you think? How should I spend my 32nd birthday?

Enjoy these great posts from some of our favourite personal finance bloggers:

– And then She Saved – Dramatically Increase The Quality of Your Life

– Frugal Portland – How Heartbreak is like a Water Pitcher

– Retire Happy Blog – Life is a series of planned and unplanned events

– The Simple Dollar – The Time to Savor

A big thank you to these websites that have featured articles from Dinks Finance:

– BlogHer – Should I give my boyfriend a marriage ultimatum?

– H&R Block – 5 money conversations to have before you get married

– The Quarter Roll Magazine – 5 Things that I would never pay $25 for

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The Advantages of Getting Married

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Good Morning Dinks.  Yesterday I met with one half of my favourite bank couples.  I have a couple of clients who deal with our bank branch for both of their individual personal finances as well as their retirement and estate planning as a couple.  The two men, who for confidentiality reasons we will call “Adam” and “Mike”, are two of the nicest and most charismatic men whom I have ever met.  They are well travelled, well educated, and well spoken.  There is a slight age difference between the two men of 10 years but nevertheless they both appear to be on the same page personally, professionally, and financially.

Adam and Mike have been together for almost as long as I have been with my boyfriend Nick (13 years) and just like us they are also not married.  Yesterday I noticed (for the first time) a gold band on Adam’s ring finger and my first instinct was to ask if they had got married since the last time I saw them.  Adam told me that they hadn’t got married and that the ring was merely a sign of commitment.  I can definitely relate to that, it’s almost as if people trust you more when you are married. It seems like being committed for eternity to one person makes us more trustworthy.

Adam also told me that they have been together for so long that they both don’t see the point in getting married. I thought to myself…wow this all sounds too familiar, they must own the same “reasons not to get married” book as my boyfriend Nick.  Adam said that they looked into the advantages of getting married as a gay couple with a lawyer and they lawyer advised them that there are really no financial advantages to getting married.  Adam and Mike are currently recognized as common law partners, they both have a Last Will and Testament which clearly states that they are each the sole beneficiary of each other’s estate.

I absolutely understand Adam and Mike’s point of view, but at the same time there is so much more to getting married than the financial advantages. What about the peace of mind of waking up and falling asleep with the same person every day? What about knowing that you can always depend on your spouse both personally and financially? What about finding someone who makes you a better person, or to reference Jerry Maguire finding someone who completes you?

Why did you decide to get married?

The Advantages of Getting Married

Committing yourself to someone for the rest of your life

If you get married then you get to have a wedding

Knowing that you can live on a Dinks budget and not a single income

The Disadvantages of Getting Married

Your family may not like your spouse and this can cause conflict

Some people may feel like they have to live up to the typical wife or husband stereotype

If you never get married then you can never be divorced

 

Photo by Shelley Panzarella  

Are You Good With Money?

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Many of us know that we should be financially responsible because it’s a good thing to be, but do you know why? Being a financially responsible adult means that we are good with our money, but what does that really mean? In my opinion being good with money means that we save money on a regular basis for our financial goals, we manage our debts to build or maintain a good credit score (750 or higher) and we live on a budget to make sure that we can afford our lifestyle.  However just like the definition of rich or wealthy, the definition of good with money means something different for everyone.

What is your definition of good with money?

Peace of mind.  Maybe you consider yourself good with money if you have a financial peace of mind.  If you have an emergency saving fund in case of an unexpected event, if keep a balance in your checking or savings account and if you don’t live paycheck to paycheck you may consider yourself to be good with money.

 Protect yourself from fraud. Being good with money may be described as preventing yourself and your money from any potential fraud.  You can protect yourself from potential identity theft and fraud by ordering your credit bureau on a regular basis (ever 12 months) as well as checking your bank account and your credit card transactions on a daily basis.  If you don’t recognize some transactions it is a good idea to contact your financial institution or Credit Card Company as soon as possible in order to prevent any further theft or fraud.

Living on a budget. If you are like me then you don’t like surprises when it comes to money. I like to know how much money I have, how much money I earn and how much money I spend.  Living on a budget makes sure that I don’t over spend.  It also ensures that I save for my personal financial goals.  Of course we can always have more money, but living on a budget ensures that I always live within my means.

Spending money on quality items. You may consider yourself good with money if you value every dollar that you earn, after all you do work hard for your money.  I wouldn’t consider myself to be cheap, but I am definitely picky about where (and on what) I spend my money.  Of course I am guilty of making impulse purchases and there are definitely purchases that I regret; but in general I like to think that I am good with my money.  To me being good with money means that I chose to spend my money on quality and not quantity.  I don’t care if I have a lot of clothes as long as I have enough good clothes to get me through each of the four seasons.  Spending $500 on a winter coat may seem like a waste of money to some people, but if you have that winter coat for 10 years it’s actually money well spent.

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FinCon Follow Up: Part 3 – Giveaways For You!

One lucky reader will win all these great gifts.

Good Morning Dinks.  It’s time again to talk about my trip to Denver, Colorado for FinCon12.  I know that you may be sick of reading about FinCon12 and Denver, Colorado but just take my word for it; you want to read today’s post.

Aside from learning about the business side of blogging, travelling to new cities, networking to make new friends and connecting with potential employers, one of the benefits of attending a blogging conference is the swag bag.  At both BlogHer12 in NYC and FinCon12 in Denver I received tons of free products and I also learned about all kinds of new services.

Today Dinks Finance is going to spread the wealth with one lucky reader. Today we are giving away our financial swag from FinCon12 and our couples swag from BlogHer12 to one lucky reader. Yes, you read that correctly, one lucky reader is going to win all of the items below. Our giveaway is full of helpful financial books as well as a sexy little gift from Eden Fantasys.  This giveaway from Dinks Finance is guaranteed to enhance both your personal finances and your love life at the same time.

Enter our contest to win a complete package that will help you achieve all of your financial goals and personal dreams. Entering the giveaway is simple, just leave a comment and tell us where you would love to travel with (or without) your spouse in 2013.

The winner will be announced soon, good luck everyone. Enter for your chance to win:

– A t-shirt and reusable bag from Coupon Cabin. Coupon Cabin had a booth at BlogHer12 in NYC.  Their celebrity spokesperson is America’s favourite reality TV mother Kate Gosselin.  Does she beat out Kris Kardashian? Kate Gosselin was at BlogHer, but I did not get a chance to meet her.  Coupon Cabin is a website that features coupons and discounts at a variety of national and local retailers.  If you love to coupon then you should definitely check them out.

– A Sexy Couples Gift Bag from Eden Fantasys. I met Eden Fantasys at BlogHer12 in NYC.  Dinks Finance is giving away a sexy little gift that you and your spouse can enjoy over and over again for many years to come. For a closer look please click here.

– A Financial Guide to Investing. The Sound Mind Investing Handbook by Austin Pryor was in my FinCon12 swag bag. It is a step by step guide to managing your money. Sound Mind Investing discusses topics such as how investing can be quite simple, how to use your own money to limit your investing risk, how to implement an investing strategy, and how to maximize your IRA and 401k.

– An attitude changing personal finance book. Pocket Your Dollars by Carrie Rocha was also in my FinCon12 swag bag.  This book is not yet released and therefore you are entering to win an advanced copy of Carrie Rocha’s book.  This book will help you change your attitude to help you pay down debt, avoid financial stress, and pocket more of your own money.

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