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Free Money, Minimalism, and a Giveaway Extravaganza

Happy Friday DINKS. I hope you all had a great week.  As you may know last week marked our one year anniversary together.  Last year we held two contests where our winners didn’t contact us to claim their prizes.  So today we are going to (once again) give away the two prizes.  The first prize is $25 via Pay Pal, and the second prize is a copy of the personal finance book The Wealthy Barber by David Chilton.

To enter yourself into the contest to win $25 via Pay Pal leave a comment on this post and tell us the best or worst anniversary gift that you ever received or gave to someone.  To enter yourself into the contest to win a copy of the book The Wealthy Barber by David Chilton leave a comment and let us know the most outrageous thing you have ever done for money or with your money.  It may a purchase that you regret, or it may be an awful job that you once had.

It is important to read about the financial success and failures of other people because we can learn a lot about ourselves and our financial mentalities, personalities, and habits. Wherever you are right now whether you are in your office, in your kitchen, or in your bedroom, look around. What do you see? Do you see clutter or clean shelves? When you think about all of your personal possessions are they necessities for daily living or unnecessary impulse purchases?

Here are some other great posts from around the web about minimalists, saving, and being frugal:

  • Yes I am Cheap discusses when minimalism becomes an obsession in her post Go Green: Minimalism, How Low Can You Go.  We all want to live a more frugal life but when is it enough?  How little is too little for basic living?
  • Money Crush takes being a minimalist to the extreme and cuts out spending all together on her No Spend Days.  Peoples spending patterns may be habits not necessity.  We spend money because we have it.  Money Crush discusses the money we can save each day in the post The Value of No Spend Days.  Do you have a No Spend Day or a No Spend Month?
  • Frugal Dad talks about the unnecessary things that we purchase in a world ruled by consumerism and consumption in his post 15 Things Our Grandparents Lived Without.
  • Everyday Minimalist discusses the process of becoming a minimalist and cleaning out your closet in the post How Do You Decide If Something Is Worth Keeping?

Have a great weekend DINKS. We will announce the winner of the $25 via PayPal and a copy of The Wealthy Barber by David Chilton next Friday.

When Business Relationships Become Personal

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The black and white area of our financial relationships may become grey as we develop personal relationships within our professional lives.

If you have a financial advisor, when does your professional relationship about your finances become personal?

I have been a financial planner for almost six years and I have received some pretty outrageous requests from clients over the years.  People often trust their personal financial advisor just as much as (and sometimes more than) they trust their own family.  It is normal for two people who spend time together to form a personal bond over the years, but to what extent should our professional relationships become personal?

My financial institution offers mobile personal financial advisor services.  This means that as your personal financial advisor I can visit you at your home or office for our business meetings.  As people’s lives become more hectic, banks are trying to accommodate the lives of their busy clients.  Therefore we offer mobile banking services for our client’s convenience.  However, sometimes the business lines are crossed with  personal requests.

One day last fall I went to visit a client at his home to have him sign some papers and also to pick up a cheque for deposit.  Once our business meeting was over the client handed me a list and asked me to do his grocery shopping. Last spring as I prepared for a personal 4 day vacation to New York City I called some of my (more demanding) clients to inform them that I would be out of the office for a few days. One of my clients called me back and asked me to pick up his wife and drive her to New York City.  She had plans to visit her children in New York the exact same weekend. Instead of booking a flight, my client asked if his wife could drive along with me.

Some of the requests that I have received from business clients do not stop at personal favours.  I had one client ask if I could accompany his son to an upcoming family wedding as his date. It is hard for some clients to accept that I am unmarried even though I am a young professional who lives with her long time boyfriend.  Some clients don’t understand the DINKS generation of being unmarried and childless with a focus on our career.  Do you let your personal values influence your business relationships?

Usually I am a strong believer that family and business don’t mix.  However, the exception to his rule is personal financial advice and choosing a personal financial advisor. It is ok to take recommendations about financial institutions and financial advisors from family members.  Even if you have the same financial advisor as another member of your family, all personal financial dealings are kept confidential between you and your financial advisor.

It is important to remember that our financial advisor is not our friend, our financial advisor works for us.  However, it is also important to remember that our financial advisor is a professional bank employee; they are not our personal employee.  Have you ever crossed the professional relationship line with a personal request?

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DINKS Reality: Extreme Couponing

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Last week I saw this show on TLC called Extreme Couponing and I couldn’t believe it so I have to share.

Extreme couponing is a show about extreme shopping and extreme saving.  I was in awe about the amount of effort and energy that people will spend to save a dollar. I couldn’t help but think that if people put the same amount of energy into their career that they put into saving with coupons, they could afford to buy the items they want.

The first extreme coupon story was about a woman who collected 500 coupons per week. She recently relocated her family to a new town and moved 1000 lbs of food.  She had an entire separate house for her food.  Some of us would better use this space as a garage or a guest house, but this woman used it for her surplus of food.  I say that her food inventory is a surplus because they are a one child family; she does not need 1000 lbs of food to continuously feed only 3 people.

Every year in the US we throw away $37 million in coupons.  This woman didn’t feel that all of this free money should go to waste so she searches through dumpsters and other people’s garbage to find her treasure in the form of coupons.

At any given time she has a book of over 4000 coupons.  The book weighs 8 lbs and is divided into 36 categories.  As I was watching the crazy saving antics of Extreme Couponing I couldn’t help but realize that this woman is actually wasting money, not saving money.  When we buy in surplus we may be saving physical money but we are still spending money on things that we don’t need.  Are we really saving money if we are spending unnecessarily?

This woman started extreme couponing and stock piling when her husband lost his job. They didn’t have money to buy groceries so they had to live off of their reserve; the family soon found they hungry and starving for food. Now the woman shops for and stockpiles thousands of pounds of food in case she ever has the need to live off her reserve again.  I know that we should learn from our financial mistakes, but this takes learning to a whole new level, it becomes an obsession.

This extreme couponing woman says that an item comes on sale an average of every 3 months. Therefore she buys 3 months supply of any one item so that she doesn’t need to buy it again until it goes back on sale.  While they were grocery shopping the woman told her son that he couldn’t have Spiderman Candy because it wasn’t on sale. I found this heartbreaking to watch because a child should not have to sacrifice something due to their parent’s obsessive habits.

If this woman spent her days at work earning an annual income instead of dumpster diving for coupons she could afford to buy her son some candy.  I understand that everyone wants to save money but should saving become an obsession?

Extreme Couponing is not only a show about saving money with coupons.  This woman has an entire shopping strategy which includes using young male cashiers when she checks out because they are more understanding about her massive quantity of coupons.

In this episode of Extreme Couponing the original grocery bill was $638.64.   After the cashier deducted all of the coupons the woman had a total cost of only $2.64. She had a 98% savings thanks to coupons. Would you (could you) use coupons to save over $600?

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The Financial Taste Test: Coke vs. Pepsi

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Good Morning DINKS.
  Today we are going to discuss two of the biggest beverage brands in the world, and determine if your personal preference is the same as your financial taste.  Finance is personal, which means that it is an individual choice for everyone.  Do you separate your financial life from your personal life?  We all choose which stocks we want to buy, and in which companies we want to invest.




If you really like a company as an individual consumer, would it influence your financial decision to buy stock in that company?  Your personal decision to buy individual stocks may be based solely on financial data; however it may also be based on personal preference.

According to a recent post on CNN the Coca Cola Company now holds the number one, and the number two spots of the most popular carbonated soft drinks.  Coke has always held the number one spot and until recently Pepsi held the number two spot.  However, with the emergence of Diet Coke into the number two spot, the Coca Cola Company now holds both the number one and the number two spots of the most carbonated soft drinks.

I am a long time faithful drinker of Diet Coke, and my family has always been faithful to the Coca Cola Company.  I decided to visit both the Pepsi Cola Company Website as well as the Coca Cola Company Website; it was very evident that Pepsi is a business while Coca Cola is a brand.

Here are some facts about the Coca Cola Company:

The Coca Cola Company is an American Company that was established in Atlanta.  The first president acquired the Coca Cola Company in 1891 for approximately $2300.  They have been in business for over 125 years and Coca Cola is currently sold in 200 Countries.  There are over 1.7 billion Coca Cola products served each day.

Coca Cola has 49 consecutive years with increased dividends.  The Stock Ticker Symbol is KO.  Coca Cola currently offers 3500 products that include soft drinks including Fanta, bottled water, sports drinks, energy drinks such as Full Throttle, Juices such as Fuze as well as various teas and coffee.

Here are some facts about the Pepsi Cola Company:

The Pepsi Cola Company was founded in North Carolina in 1898.  The Pepsi website has a completely different approach than the Coca Cola Website.  Pepsi’s motto is “Something for Everyone.”  The website is focused towards a younger crowd.  It is fun and interactive with links to Twitter, Face Book, and You Tube. There is also a Pepsi Shop where visitors can purchase Pepsi clothing.

The Pepsi Cola Company has several beverage products that include waters, carbonated soft drinks, energy drinks that include Amp, dairy based drinks, and ready to drink teas and coffees which include SoBe, Lipton, and Starbucks

The rivalry between Coca Cola and Pepsi started many years ago.  In 1931 after its second bankruptcy the Pepsi Cola Company was sold to a man who was looking to end his current business relationship with Coca Cola but not alienate clients and loose business.

I didn’t like the format of Pepsi’s website. It was not user friendly as their Legacy timeline was in a PDF format as opposed to HTML. Coca Cola had its stock price and symbol on the website, corporate information was nowhere to be found on the Pepsi website.

It’s interesting to note that Pepsi Cola Company declared bankruptcy twice, and was sold during the dirty thirties while Coca Cola was expanding into different countries.  It is also interesting to know that both beverages were created by a pharmacist and both companies were founded by Americans.

Which stock would you buy?

Losing Our Personal Financial Priorities

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Yesterday I was talking with my Dad on his way out to a dinner party; he was going to visit the new home of some family friends.  My Dad’s friends recently relocated to be closer to the husband’s place of employment so he wouldn’t have such a long commute into work every day.  This move advanced the career of the husband, but in the process the wife had to sell her self-owned business.  Would you give up your career to follow your spouse?

I asked my Dad what the wife is doing for work in their new town, and he said that the husband makes well over $100,000 per year and “they aren’t too worried about the wife working”.  I thought that the wife would just relocate her business, but instead she shut it down.  It may be nice to be retired, but what is the point of having spare time if you don’t have anyone to share it with.

People say that they would love to not have to go to work every day, but I wonder if that is really true.  We probably say that we would love not to work because we are only thinking about the spare time it would create, we aren’t thinking about the loss of income at it would also create.

When is enough money really enough money?  Maybe my Dad’s friends are happy with enough money to pay their mortgage and their bills and have a little bit in savings.  It is nice to have a household income of $125,000 but if your wife can bring in an additional $65,000, it would be nicer to have a household income of $190,000.

My sister is going through a similar situation.  She recently moved for the second time to follow her boyfriend towards another promotion.  My sister has been with her boyfriend for over 5 years, but she has only recently become a DINK for this past year.  Last February my sister’s boyfriend was transferred to another city and my sister chose to quit her job and relocate with him, so she became a DINK.  Last year she found a job in her new city, and now just over a year later she is relocating again, this time they are moving to a new state.

She has put her career on hold to advance her boyfriends career…twice.  When we are in a couple we can lose our personal financial priorities.  We have to remember that when we come into a couple, we are still an individual person.  This is why I have a problem with merging finances and joint bank accounts. Not to mention the messiness of dividing assets in a divorce.

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Happy Anniversary Friday Roundup

Happy Friday Everyone!  It’s official. We have hit our one year anniversary together.  Just over a year ago I joined the DINKS community, and since that day we have been blogging happily ever after.  One year is the paper anniversary, but since we are all trying to be more eco friendly I won’t ask for any paper gifts. Instead, I will give you my favourite posts from DINKS over the last year, as well as my favourite comments.

A lot can change in a year.  Some of us have recently joined the community as New DINKS, some of us may be adjusting to single life after leaving a DINKS couple, and some of us may be welcoming a new little one into a former DINKS household.  For better or worse we are all still here together in the DINKS community. 

These are two of my favourite posts from DINKS:

DINKS: Smart or Selfish was definitely our most commented on post over the last year.  It is one of my favourite posts because it is a topic that involves everyone.  I enjoy hearing other people’s stories and opinions on subjects that affect me.  It’s almost comforting to know that other people are experiencing the same things, and having the same thoughts. 

My boyfriend Nick and I have talked about this a lot over the last year because we both turned 30.  Nick has decided that he definitely doesn’t want to have kids.  I am still on the fence, but leaning towards not having kids.  I am not sure if he really doesn’t want to have kids, or he just doesn’t want to have kids with me.

Were You Wealthy After Your Wedding? Is another one of my favourite posts because it shows how we all experience the same things differently.  As DINKS most of us may be married and therefore weddings are something that affect us all.  However, how we choose to have that experience is different for everyone.  It was interesting to see that a wedding means something different for everyone.  The days of big traditional weddings may be out the door and more personal, less showcase, ceremonies are taking over.

This is another subject that my boyfriend Nick and I have discussed a lot over this past year.  He is not willing to come over to my side and get on the wedding train.  So it’s safe to say that if I want to spend the rest of my life with Nick it will be out of wedlock.

My Favourite Comments from DINKS Posts:

Dave at 50 Plus Finance commented on our post DINKS Can Play With Toys Too.  This post discussed the evolution of toys from when we were children to the toys that we play with now as adults.  Nick is a really techy guy and loves to play with his Playstation 3.  This post states that the cost of toys in a budget doesn’t stop just because we don’t have children, adults can play with toys too. 

Here is Dave’s comment “When I was young, adult toys didn’t mean Playstation 3.”

Bankruptcy Benjamin made a comment on our post Funding Our Parents Retirement.  This is a post that discussed our need to help our parents financially through their retirement. Saving wasn’t necessarily a priority back then, and as our parents start to retire they may need some financial assistance. 

Here is Benjamin’s comment “No way man, I’m not funding the grey nomads eternal summer! I will however have a granny flat available that they can move into.”

What is your favourite post or comment from DINKS over this last year?

Small Businesses That Made It Big!

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I am a real sucker for success stories; I love to read about the small start ups of big businesses.  When I found this article on MSN I felt the need to share, the article is titled Turning Points: How small businesses made it big.  It discusses the business strategies and philosophies that allowed small businesses to exploded into an international market and sustain their brand over the years.

Here are some business success tips from market leaders:

Follow or Start a Craze.  This was the key to success of Lu Lu Lemon.  This Athletic apparel company was founded in British Columbia Canada in 1998. With the help of the active lifestyle movement and the yoga trend Lu Lu Lemon has become a leading international athletic apparel manufacturer.  Yoga has been around for many years and practiced traditionally in the Eastern World.  It recently exploded in the Western World and Lu Lu Lemon took an old tradition and made it trendy.  This small Canadian Athletic company grossed over $450 million last year.

The Right (Low) Price.  Wal-Mart is successful because people always want to save money.  Of course business owners want to make money, but by cutting into his profit margin a little bit the founder of Wal-Mart ensured this store would be known for everyday low prices.  A good reputation keeps clients coming back over the years.  A steady flow of business is better than hoping for a big sale.  Wal-Mart started as a Discount Store in Arkansas, it now earns over $400 billion in revenue per year.

Keep the Profit but not the Cost.  Mc Donald’s learned the key to success is a strong brand name.  Mc Donald’s started as a family business and learned the importance of a franchise name. After rapidly expanding throughout the US, McDonalds opened its first franchised restaurant overseas in 1967.  There are currently over 33,000 Mc Donald’s franchises operating today.

Appoint a Good President.  Facebook founder Mark Zuckerman was not the companies first President.  Sean Parker, the founder of Napster was actually named as Facebooks first president in 2004.  Sean is most notably known for his contributions to drop the “The” from the title and rename the site facebook.com, as well as his aggressive focus towards global expansion.  Facebook currently has over 600 million users worldwide.

Sign a Contract to Become Mainstream.  This is a business strategy that helped Microsoft become a household name.  After signing a contract with IBM to become the sole operating system on all of its computers, everyone with an IBM computer was now a Microsoft client.  Today, almost 90% of all computers run with a Microsoft operating system.

Get a Celebrity Endorsement.  If you had to get a celebrity endorsement Oprah would be the celebrity that you would want to have.  I don’t fully understand the Oprah craze but it seems that everything this woman touches turns to gold.  With the Oprah seal of approval in 2003 the share price of Deckers Outdoor Corporations, parent company of UGG Australia, soared from $5.60 per share to over $56 per share.

To view more of the small business success stories click here.

(Photo by Berd)

It’s OK To Pay For…

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I don’t mind paying for certain things in life that I am unable to provide for myself.  I am not the type of person to constantly spend a lot of money on lavish gifts and expensive things.  In order for me to spend the money the opportunity has to definitely outweigh the cost.

I don’t mind paying a lot of money for a great experience.  I have learned to choose where to spend my money because it much more rewarding to get my money’s worth and have a great experience than it is to have a life full of material goods that are worthless over time.

Whether we are buying our first home, a really nice piece of jewellery, or our first car, we definitely always want to get a good deal. In my opinion it’s ok to pay for:

A Good Vacation.  I would rather take one amazing vacation every year, rather than several small mini vacations throughout the year.  I prefer to pay for one trip to a place that I have never travelled, as opposed to continuously visiting the same inexpensive vacation destination.  Of course I shop around on various travel websites to find the best deal possible for the time that I want to travel, but I don’t mind paying extra money for a really great travel experience.

A Nice Dinner.  As you know I am not a great cook and therefore I eat out quite a bit.  I don’t mind spending money on food since we all need to eat, but I usually try to keep my costs to a minimum since it is a reoccurring expense.  It is rare that I will spend a lot of money to eat out at a nice restaurant or pay for an expensive meal.  Usually my boyfriend Nick and I order delivery or we go to get take out.  On rare occasion when a new restaurant opens up or for a friend’s birthday we do go out to eat at an expensive restaurant.  I don’t drink alcohol which helps cut down on our restaurant bill.

To Help Out a Friend or Family Member. I have lent money to family in the past and had both good and bad experiences.  I have also lent money to friends in the past and had both good and bad experiences.  When we lend money to family or friends we must be careful because money can be the root of all evil.  Even after a family member did not repay money that I lent to them, I found it hard to say no to a future friend in need.  I still lend out money to friends and family if they need it, but I am cautious about the terms and repayment conditions.

Periodic splurging is ok as long as it doesn’t become a habit.
What do you think it is ok to pay for?

 
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70 Minutes, $50, 2 Women, and a Garlic Holder

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This past week I went to a major department store with my friend to buy a bridal gift for the upcoming bridal shower of a co-worker.  I know that I am not married to my boyfriend Nick, and I know that I have always been complaining about the fact that we are not yet married.  However, my recent traumatisation of shopping for a bridal gift has changed my mind. I called my boyfriend Nick and told him that I am going to stop pressuring him into marriage, simply because I don’t want my friends to have to shop for my bridal gift.

Both my friend and I are university educated.  I have two additional diplomas and my friend has a post graduate degree.  We are educated women and neither of us could figure out the bridal registry. We were also both completely outraged at the cost of a bridal registry gift.

As a rule I rarely shop at department stores because I find them impersonal and very expensive.  I can think of 10 other ways that I would rather pass my time and spend my money other than shopping for a bridal gift at a major department store.

What was on your Bridal Registry?

If you are married what did you have on your bridal registry? Last week I shopped for expensively overpriced kitchen items for a young couple who don’t even cook.  Both the Bride and the Groom are coming into this marriage from their parent’s house.   I know that people who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones, because I am definitely not the next Iron Chef.  However, I would also never register for expensive items that I don’t need or will never use, just because I was getting married.  I would rather order delivery than cook a meal any day, and this is the exact reason why I would never register for a $12.99 spachala for my kitchen.

Yes, that’s right. Last week I spent over an hour shopping for bridal gifts that included $15.99 for a set of two Tea Towels, a $24.99 measuring cup, and a ridiculous garlic holder in the shape of a garlic clove that wasn’t even the size of my fist.  As I browsed through the aisles of the kitchen linens department I started thinking, would my co worker have spent her own money on these items? If you are married, did you register for things that you would buy with your own money?

My friend ending up buying our co worker two tea towels and two place mats along with the garlic holder for $50.  It was definitely not money that was well spent, however it wasn’t my money.  I can also think of 10 other things that I would rather do with $50 than spend it on place mats, tea towels, and a garlic holder that isn’t even big enough to hold my garlic.

How much would you spend on a Bridal Gift?

My friend wanted to stay within a $50 limit for the bridal gift because she still has to buy a gift for the bachelorette party as well as the wedding.  With the gifts, her outfit, and the transportation this wedding is going to cost my friend almost $350 and she isn’t even in the bridal party.

As a DINK I don’t understand the expensive gifts to furnish a lavish kitchen.  In my opinion these are items that should be bought by suburban housewives whose sole purpose in life is to cook for their families.  However, that is just my opinion.  People should live together before they get married, this will allow them to accumulate household furnishings over time.  It also eliminates their friends and co workers from having to spend their hard earned money on outrageously priced decorative items.  I don’t mind spending money on functional items if someone really needs them, but who really needs a garlic holder? Just put your garlic on a bowl on the counter and call it a day!

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Think Like a Bank

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When you think about money, what comes to mind? When you think about money do you think about being rich, or do you think about something else?  Maybe you think about the place that holds your money, or the place where you invest your money, or maybe when you think about money you think about your bank.

If we think like a bank we can accumulate money…just like a bank.  If we treat our money like the bank treats their money, then we will always have money…just like a bank.

Here are some tips about thinking like a bank and creating our personal wealth:

10 Tips to Think Like a Bank:

Accumulate Your Money. The goal to saving money and allowing it to accumulate is to have more money coming in than we have going out.  Our income has to surpass our expenses.  If we live within our means we will always have money.

Keep a Cash Reserve. Banks always keep a cash reserve on hand, and as individual investors, we should do the same.  Our Emergency Fund is our cash reserve.  The amount we wish to keep in it is an individual choice, but nevertheless we should all have a cash reserve in case of an emergency.

Don’t Lend Out Money When People Are In Need. Banks never lend out money to people in less than desirable financial situations, we as personal investors, should always do the same.  Don’t invest in a drowning company to help them get back on their feet (even if they promise a 20% return), and don’t help out a friend who has a poor financial past.  Old habits die hard and we may never get our money back.

Lend Out Your Money With Interest. A bank would never lend out money without charging interest, and neither should we.  If we do decide to lend out money we need to have a promise to pay as well as charge interest on the money.  We don’t want to get rich off our friends, we just want to protect our self and make sure that we get our money back. Charging interest makes up for the interest that we would have earned if we invested our money instead of lending it out.

Keep Your Money Safe. We need to protect our assets with insurance on our home, our car, our lives, and other valuable items.  If we do have some cash or other assets they should always be protected in a Home Safe or Safety Deposit Box to prevent a potential loss.

Invest Your Money Wisely. Before we decide to invest we should research potential investments.  Of course past performance is not an indication of the future, but it will provide us with an idea of how the investment is structured.  We also shouldn’t put all of our eggs into one basket.  This doesn’t mean investing with different financial institutions; it means we need to diversify our portfolio.

Specialize in Your Field. A bank is never going to offer medical advice, and neither should we if we aren’t a doctor.  We should talk about what we know, and offer advice on subjects that we are familiar with.  We should never invest in something that we don’t understand, and we should never give our money to someone that we don’t trust.

Publicly Trade Information. Banks publish their earnings and share their information with the public on a quarterly and yearly basis, and so should we.  It’s ok to talk about money with our family, our friends, and our co workers; everyone can benefit from sharing information.  Other people can learn from our mistakes, just as we can learn from theirs.  At the same time, we can benefits from other people’s financial tips and success.

Give Back to the Community. This is so important for both banks as well as individual people.  Every bank either has a charity or cause that it supports and so should we.  Some banks have even founded their own charity.  I feel that it is very important to give back to our communities and support a worthy cause. We can donate time or money it doesn’t matter, as long as we are helping out.

Forecast for the Long Term. This rule applies to our income, our investments, and our savings.  It’s ok to have short term goals to keep us focused, but we also have to prepare for the long term.  Saving for retirement, buying a home, going back to school, and paying off debt are all long term goals.  In finance, it is less common for people to set short term goals, we usually forecast for the long term.

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