Happy Friday my fellow DINKS. This week we are discussing our DINK status. We are all in dual income relationships with no kids. But, is it by choice? Or by necessity? If your partner was independently wealthy, would you become dependent?
I would like to believe that I would answer no, but when the money hits the fan, I am just not sure what I would do. Since we all do not have any children (yet) we wouldn’t become “Housewives” or “House Husbands” if our partners suddenly hit the jackpot. So what would we do?
Maybe some of us would consider having children. I use the term having children instead of the traditional “start a family” because I don’t personally believe that children define a family. My immediate family right now consists of my boyfriend Nick, my parents, and my younger sister Tara. She is 26 years old and she is also a DINK. Just because we don’t have kids doesn’t mean that we aren’t a family.
Maybe some of us would continue working. I am 29 years old and I have been working two jobs since my parents got divorced when I was 18. I have never known a life without work; therefore, I don’t think I would be able to walk away from employment. I might be able to walk away from full time employment…but not wave good bye all together. My career does not define me as a person, but it does sort of give me a sense of being, and belonging.
There is also the question of contribution into the relationship. If you are not working, and you are not contributing equally into your relationship finances, would you feel undervalued? Men and Women contribute different ways into their relationships. But would chaos break out if the black and white contribution lines of our relationships suddenly became grey? I have to admit, it may be very tempting to have a nice big house without the expensive mortgage payments!
Here is some financial news that we have rounded up for your reading pleasure this week. Enjoy and Have a Great Weekend!
- I Fell Off The Consumer Wagon @ Financially Getting to Even
- Do You Need a Dating Prenup Before You Move In Together? @ Well-Heeled
- Anti-consumerists can retire early from the rat race @ Early Retirement Extreme
- Payoff Mortgage Faster – How Do I Do It? – Four Ways @ Free From Broke
- Carnival of Personal Finance @ Suburban Dollar
- Carnival of Money Stories @ Sweating The Big Stuff
- And it’s It’s Financial Independence Day Sales Over at ING Direct!
(Photo by RGallant)
Our car insurance comes due for renewal on July 1, so I decided to shop around and see what other deals are out there on the insurance market.