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DINKS Reality: Flip This House

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damaged houseThe television channel A & E has a show called Flip This House which chronicles the experience of flipping houses for a profit.

There are four main families/couples on the television show Flip This House.  Armando is the cheap businessman from Texas, Brian and Peter are best friends from Atlanta, Than Merrill and Paul are best friends who flip houses with Paul’s older brother JD in Connecticut, and then there is Rudy in LA.

Rudy is my favourite personality on Flip This House.  He only flips high quality homes with several upgrades in various LA neighbourhoods.  The LA homes that Rudy flips are smaller than homes in other cities on Flip This House; this is why he focuses on upgrades and exterior living space.

The key to successfully flipping houses is to know your market. In Georgia Brian and Peter focus on the kitchen as a main selling point for Southern home cooking, and in Connecticut Than and Paul focus on having several bedrooms. Than and Paul focus on selling to new/young families; they like to have 1 bathroom for every 2 bedrooms in the houses that they flip.

Rudy in LA will go over schedule and over budget to make sure that his homes are worth the price and of the highest quality.  Most people who flip houses are in it for the money. They think about the bottom line, which is the total profit at the end of the flip.  Every day that flippers go over their schedule is another dollar that they go over budget.  However, how thin is the line between the bottom line and a good quality home?

In addition to the purchase price of the home and the cost of renovations, flippers must also factor in the additional holding costs such as utilities, interest on the loan, and the price of building permits.  Flipping houses is only one of Rudy’s jobs; he also owns some successful LA restaurants. Rudy focuses on the exterior living space for sunny California living.

Do any of our DINKS flip houses? If you do, would you sacrifice the quality of a home to make a larger profit?

In the last episode I watched Rudy buy a house for $270,000 and sold it for $417,500.  He was 4 months over schedule due to weather delays and home inspection permits.  But at the end of the day Rudy still made a profit; maybe not as big of a profit as he had planned, but nevertheless he still made a profit.

The selling tactic that sets Rudy apart from the other personalities on A&E’s Flip This House is the fact that he also acts as the Real Estate Agent.  Rudy sets up a potential buyer at the beginning of the flip and keeps them updated throughout the whole process.  This eliminates the possibility of not selling the house once it is finished and on the market.

Many long-term real estate agents get their real estate license online for more benefits. Having a license will allow you access to MLS without having to rely on other agents. Many investors realize that every time they sell a house through another agent, they are spending about 6% of the sale price in agent commissions. What they don’t realize is that when they buy property, their agent is also collecting up to 3% for facilitating the transaction. Being your own agent on deals could earn you lots of extra money. When you pursue your real estate education with stateCE, you will be able to work and learn at a time that is convenient for your schedule.

The Pros of Flipping Houses

  1. There is always a demand in the housing market, people are always moving and upgrading.
  2. There is a lot of money to be made in the business of flipping houses.
  3. No two days are ever the same.  No one who flips houses can say that they have a boring or repetitive job.

 

 

The Cons of Flipping Houses

  1. The house may not sell when finished which can lead to additional holding costs and interest payments.
  2. We have to rely on several different trade workers such as flooring experts, plumbers, as well as roofing specialists.  It can cause delays in our schedule depending on everyone’s availability.
  3. It may be difficult to get funding from banks on the properties.

If flipping houses was easy then everyone would do it; and if it wasn’t profitable then no one would do it.

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Never Go To Bed Angry About Money!

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As DINKS we are all in a couple. It is said that the number one thing people argue about in their marriage is money.  I am here to say that ring or no ring, most couples whether they are married or not, argue about money. Most of the arguments that I have with my long time boyfriend Nick are about money or related to money.  We often argue about overspending as well as our different spending habits.  I enjoy travelling and Nick enjoys savings.  I enjoy going out and Nick enjoys staying home.  Nick enjoys attending live sporting events and I think it’s a waste of his money. However, he feels that spending $100 on LUSH cosmetics is a complete waste of my money.

We both love renting instead of buying a home or condo, but we disagree on our living location.  I enjoy paying expensive rent to live downtown and close to all amenities.  Nick feels that we could pay less rent and still live close to amenities in a neighbourhood outside of downtown.

If we moved away from downtown we would have to factor in the opportunity cost of added travel time to and from our offices, as well as the cost of a monthly public transportation pass.  Our lease is up in October and we have decided to renew for another year at our current apartment.  I say that we are renewing our apartment lease for another year instead of one more year because we have debated about leaving our expensive yet convenient apartment for the last 3 years.  However, we both hate moving.

What do you argue about in your DINKS couple?

MSN recently published an article titled The Top 10 Fights in Marriage.  Money was listed as number 10.  Keep reading to see if you argue about the same things as other couples.

The Fight about Replacing the Toilet Paper. I have to admit that there is nothing more frustrating than having to put the toilet seat down and replace the toilet paper every time I go to the bathroom.  I feel that my boyfriend doesn’t understand the expensive price of toilet paper, not to mention the hassle of carrying it home from the pharmacy.

The TV Time Fight. Nick and I actually have separate televisions, one in the living room and one in the bedroom.  We do have shows in common that we watch together, but having an extra television in the bedroom is definitely helpful.  I have a friend who would change the channel from NFL Football to Desperate Housewives every single Sunday night.  After two weeks of missing an hour of football every Sunday her husband bought her a brand new television. Remote control crisis converted.

The Vacation Planning Fight. I often travel with my family or friends because my boyfriend Nick does not share my passion for exploring new countries.

The Fight About Needing Some “Me Time”. I personally don’t think that couples should ever fight about needing some “me time”.  Just because we are married into a couple doesn’t mean that we stop being an individual.  Personal time is just as important as couples time.

The Fight Over Our Families. Deciding where to spend time during the holidays and other special occasions can be difficult when we are in a couple.  I believe that alternating is the best solution.

The Religion Fight. I believe that religious beliefs and traditional values are something that should be discussed prior to marriage, along with money values and views.

The “Work is Taking Over” Fight. A lot of couples also fight over time away from home and extra time spent at the office.  I know that a big part of my parents’ divorce was the fact that my Mother was putting in extra hours at the office while trying to advance her Upper Management Career and my Father disapproved.  The thing that couples have to remember is that our job is what brings in our money and pays our bills.

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Friday Roundup: The Open Road, Our Contest Winners, Osama Bin Laden, and Some Pasta.

Happy Friday DINKS! Today for some light reading before we start our weekend we are going to discuss our many travels.  I absolutely love travelling to new places, learning about different cultures, and experiencing new things.

However, before we get started I would like to congratulate B. Myself and ib.  You are both winners of our Friday Giveaway Extravaganza. B. Myself you are the winner of $25 via PayPal and ib is the winner of a copy of the personal finance book The Wealthy Barber.  Please get in touch with us so we can send you the prizes.

As you may remember, I am a huge fan of Europe.  Every few years I plan to take a trip to Europe. In 2009 I went to Spain, and next summer I am planning to go to Italy.  Also on my list of European countries to visit are Portugal and Greece.

I usually choose by travel destinations based on personal preference. However, sometimes the currency conversion rate as well as the cost of living in particular countries influences my decision.  Travel time to the destination as well as safety and security for tourists are also both factors that I consider when choosing a travel destination.  The current conversion rate of US Dollars to Euros is 0.6787; this means that it will cost $1473.50 US Dollars to buy 1000 Euros.  This rate is a lot better than it was in September 2009 when I travelled to Spain.  However, who knows what the foreign exchange rate will be next summer when I go to Italy.

We haven’t decided yet where we are going stay in Italy.  This will depend on the cost of flights to different cities as well as hotels.  I am sure that whether we are in Rome, Venice, or Milan we will totally love Italy.  Does anyone have a favourite city or hotel in Italy?

Here are some other posts from around the web about personal experience while travelling:

  • Man vs. Debt talks about his RV adventure around American in his post 10 Truths I’ve Learned on the Open Road.
  • Blonde and Balanced discusses the details of her upcoming 3 week honeymoon in Mexico in her post Honeymoon is Booked! AKA Out of the Office for 3 Weeks!
  • Fabulously Broke travels a lot for work.  She discusses her favourite places to eat, shop, and stay while visiting various Canadian and American cities.  She also mentions some places to avoid. FB is planning a trip to Asia; I look forward to reading more about that.
  • Frugal Dad gives us ways to save money on our vacation in his post 7 Money Saving Vacation Websites (After You Purchase Your Tickets).
  • Green Panda Tree House offers tips to save money while on vacation in the post How to Budget for a Vacation.

Before we part our separate ways for the weekend, I want to take a quick minute to discuss the most recent world news that hit us last week.  It was reported that Osama Bin Laden was captured and killed by US Navy Seals. All I want to say is that if Osama Bin Laden was responsible for the attacks of September 11 then I believe that he got what he deserved.  However, the loss of one man’s life will not bring back the thousands of fathers, mothers, sons, and daughters, who lost their lives on the tragic day of September 11, 2001.

I found 2 interesting posts from other personal finance bloggers about the death of Osama Bin Laden. Please visit Financial Samurai and Man vs. Debt to read more.

Have a Great Weekend DINKS!

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Easy Meals and Recipes For Under $10

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One of our major monthly expenses may be Food. Whether we choose to eat out, order in, or cook at home, food and groceries can be a major monthly expense for many people.  I for one spend a lot of money on food eat month, mostly because I am a terrible cook and often eat out. I would love to learn to cook easy recipes and save money on my food budget. Today we are going to offer great tips and recipes to help cut down your food budget and save you money on your grocery bill.

I don’t mind paying for any meal under $10, but some DINKS feel that $10 is an outrageous price to pay for food.  I think it’s important for me to learn to cook to make sure I am eating healthy and getting all the right nutrients.  However, it is also important for me to learn to cook and save money in my monthly food budget.

Use Inexpensive Ingredients to Fill Up

Melissa d’Arabian is the winner of the reality show The Next Food Network Star; she currently hosts a show on The Food Network called Ten Dollar Dinners.  Melissa is a stay at home mother of 4 whose husband is from France.  This means that Melissa d’Arabian has to feed her family on a budget while respecting her husband’s French flair and love of great tasting food.  Melissa cooks meals that can feel a family of four on a $10 budget.  The key to cooking a big hearty meal on a little $10 budget is to use inexpensive filler foods such as zucchini.  Filler foods are not a main ingredient or flavour; they are used to make a meal heartier and heavier.

Ham is another inexpensive ingredient and it’s not just for sandwiches. Melissa d’Arabian uses Ham in pastas and salads.  She always keeps ham in her house because it’s versatile and inexpensive. Bread is another inexpensive ingredient that Melissa recommends for $10 cooking.  Bread can be used as an ingredient such as stuffing, a topping such as croutons, or an appetizer to accompany any meal such as garlic bread or bruschetta.

Melissa d’Arabian cooks everything from Chicken Dinners to Tossed Angel Hair Pasta and Fish Piccata for her $10 Dinners.  Visit The Food Network for great $10 dinner recipes from Melissa d’Arabian.

Eat Healthy and Cook for Several Days to Keep Costs Down

Rachael Ray is a household name for many people.  I absolutely adore Rachael Ray and I watch The Rachael Ray Show as often as I can.  Rachael Ray offers Budget Meals, Means for $10 and under, as well as a Week in a Day which allows us to cook food for the whole week while cooking for just one day.

Rachael Ray’s $10 and under meals can be found on her website. We can also sign up to have recipes delivered directly to our inbox.  Rachel Ray’s $10 and under meals will feed a family of 4.  As DINKS this means that we can eat for 2 days for only $10.

Rachael Ray’s $10 and under meals include Baby Spinach Salad with Mandarin Orange and Red Onions, Sicilian Eggplant Marinara Over Penne, as well as Root Vegetable Chowder.  $10 and under meals are both healthy and cost efficient.

Do you have a favorite inexpensive meal under $10?

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May Love Drop: Let’s Show The Stalnaker Family Some Love


Good Morning DINKS! It’s May and The Love Drop team is at it again! Last month Love Drop gave over $6,000 worth of cash and goods to the Kahlen family.  They have been going through financially hard times due to the economy; their daughter is also currently battling Tuberous Sclerosis. Love Drop focused on the Kahlen family’s love of spending time together, and brought them over 8 pairs of tickets to local events and attractions. It was definitely awesome! You can watch the Kahlen family Love Drop here.

This month Love Drop is supporting the Stalnakers.  They are a family who, along with thousands of others along the gulf coast, are still recovering from the effects and aftermath of the BP oil spill.  Love Drops goal this month is to get the Stalnaker family a reliable used car. Their car died a while ago and they have since been borrowing a car from a friend.  However, it’s getting harder and harder for the Stalnakers to manage their time while using a borrowed car. They’ve been giving back to their community for several years, and now it’s time for the Love Drop community to help them!

Here are three ways you can join Love Drop and help the Stalnaker Family:

  • Help them get a car! – Our #1 goal is to give them a reliable used car in decent working order. If you have any connections or discounts in the automobile industry please email Love Drop ASAP.
  • Give a Gift or Service – Gift cards for places like Target, Wal-mart, and family restaurants would definitely help them out. Services are great too. If you have a service to offer please let Love Drop know, everything from personal nutrition to personal finance is helpful.
  • Give $$$$ – This money will help get them back on their feet, and relieve some of their financial burden.  Every dollar counts!  Monthly contributions start at only $1.00.  Do you have $1 per month to spare?

Love Drop is trying to increase their giving capacity for each family every month and they need our help.  Love Drop is currently searching for local businesses that will make a regular contribution each month just as personal members do.

Most personal Love Drop members contribute $5-$20 per month, and they’re happy to pay that small amount to make a huge impact and see exactly where their money goes.

Love Drop wants to get in contact with small and medium sized businesses to see if they would be happy to contribute $50-$200 per month to be a continuous part of the Love Drop community. Businesses that join will get recognition on the Love Drop website.

Love Drop wants our help to get in touch with companies who have a strong involvement in community activities, or who just want to give back in general. If you own a business or if you know some business owners please talk to them about Love Drop.  Ask them to spend a dollar and change a life. Please send all information by email to Love Drop which includes the Company Name, Company Website, Contact Name and Title, along with the Contact Email Address.  Love Drop will contact them to discuss different contribution opportunities.

Thank you for your continuous help. Love Drop couldn’t give to families in need without help from the Love Drop community and its members.

 

DINKS Reality: Storage Wars on A&E

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“Price is Always the Issue.” Brandi Passante

About two weeks ago I came across a show on A & E called Storage Wars.  It is said that one man’s trash is another man’s treasure; or in the case of Storage Wars, one man’s repo is another man’s financial profit.  Storage Wars on A & E displays the business of buying and selling storage lockers after the owners have defaulted on payments, and the storage lockers have been repossessed.

There are four regular personalities on the show Storage Wars and they are all in the business of buying storage lockers for different reasons. However, they all bid against each other on the same abandoned storage lockers in hopes of finding some hidden profitable treasures.

The business of Storage Wars

Dave is the veteran of Storage Wars.  He owns a higher end Thrift Store in California that sells second hand jewellery, furs, and antiques. Dave’s business strategy on Storage Wars is to eliminate his competition by bidding on lockers that he doesn’t want just to increase the price for his competitors.

This makes other storage locker bidders spend their money quicker, which allows Dave to purchase his storage lockers at a lower price because his competitors have already spent all of their money.  Dave once bought a storage locker for $275, not because he wanted it, just because he didn’t want someone else to have it.  After rummaging through the contents of the storage locker he found a box full of precious rocks and sold them for $5000.

Darryl is also a veteran of Storage Wars; he is currently teaching the business of buying and selling storage lockers to his son. Storage Wars is about the win for Darryl; he is often in bidding wars with Dave, and as a result he often over pays for his storage lockers.

I don’t understand the financial side of continuous bidding.  If we only want to pay $500 for a storage locker, why would we continue bidding and overpay for something just to win the bidding war? If I was Darryl, I would let Dave continue bidding to raise the price of the storage locker. Then at one point I would stop bidding, this would leave Dave with an overpriced storage locker full of items that he didn’t want.  I would never overpay for something just to win a bidding war.  Every single dollar that the bidders on Storage Wars overpay for a storage locker is a dollar less of potential profit.

The important thing to remember about Storage Wars is that these men are blind bidding on abandoned storage lockers. They have 5 minutes to examine the contents of the storage locker from outside, and they aren’t able to touch anything. Sometimes they find hidden treasures, and sometimes they find boxes full of trash.  I saw an episode of Storage Wars when Dave paid $750 for a storage locker full of newspapers.  It turns out that the newspapers were from the week that Elvis Presley died and the ending up being worth $60,000 to $90,000 USD.

Jarrod Schultz and Brandi Passante are a young married couple who own a lower end thrift and second hand store. They look for storage lockers filled with everyday household items such as furniture, appliances, and home decorations. Jarrod and Brandi are the rookies of Storage Wars and it shows in their bidding style.

Brandi manages their business, and Jarrod is responsible for bidding on storage lockers and finding items to fill the shelves in their store.  They are in the storage locker business because that is what pays their bills.  Brandi accompanies Jarrod on the storage locker bidding wars because Jarrod tends to get carried away and spend their rent money on unprofitable storage lockers.  Brandi tags along and puts a bidding cap on each locker to make sure that Jarrod doesn’t overspend.  This is the number one rule of business, don’t expand too fast, and don’t spend money before we make money.

5 Valuable Financial Lessons Learned From Storage Wars

  1. Don’t Be Pressured into Buying Anything. Spending money we don’t want to or need to is a big financial mistake.
  2. It’s Ok to Make Mistakes as Long as We Learn from Them. Never make the same (financial) mistake twice.
  3. Always Go With Your Gut It, Can Be Rewarding. They told us this in school when we are writing tests, always go with your first instinct.  The same rule applies to our finances; if your gut tells you not to spend the money then don’t spend it.
  4. Know what you are Investing in before you Spend Money. These guys have to know about everything.  I watched 4 episodes and saw everything from patio furniture to Levis jeans and old antique telephones to flare guns.
  5. It’s Smart to be Competitive but not Aggressive. Being too aggressive can be costly.  It’s good for business to have a healthy competition but we have to be inancially smart. Remember, it’s always about the bottom line. At the end of the day, the profit has to be more than the cost.

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My Alarm Clock, My Lunch, and My Favorite Day of the Week

alarm clockHappy Friday DINKS! I hope you had a great week.  If there is one thing that I hate about waking up in the morning it is waking up to the sound of my alarm clock. However, I absolutely love waking up on Friday mornings because I know that my weekend is starting in approximately 8 hours. My work on Fridays seems to be a bit easier and the day seems to pass by a lot faster because I am looking forward to the weekend.

I also love Fridays because they are my Financially Free Days. On Fridays I eat out for lunch at work, every Friday I spend a max of $10 on my lunch.  I bring my homemade lunch to work every other day of the week, so on Friday it’s nice to just wake up and get going without having to make my lunch.

Do you have a regular Friday routine?

On Fridays I try to spend some money on myself, if I want to I buy something that is just for me, something that is not for our apartment and not for daily couple living.  On Fridays I buy something that I have wanted all week long that is just for me. The reason I do this is to avoid impulse purchases.

If I see something on Monday and if I still want it by Friday then I buy it.  If I haven’t talked myself out of the purchase with reasons why I don’t need the item then it was meant to be.  A week delay also allows time for my item to go on sale.  Last Monday I saw a new beige business suit on my lunch hour, and when I went back on Friday to buy it the suit was half price.  I just saved $125 by waiting a week to buy my suit because the suit was on sale for half price from $250.  Any day that I can save $125 is a good day in my financial books.

What are you doing this weekend?

Here are some posts from around the web about how other Personal Finance Bloggers will be spending their weekend:

Brooklyn Bitches on a Budget is a website about living a fabulous life in Brooklyn on a low budget.  They often discuss inexpensive local restaurant hot spots as well as do it yourself cheap recipes for cooking and eating at home.  They start their weekend with a Weekend Wish List.  This week it includes having drinks with friends and shopping for thank you notes.

Canadian Finance Blog tells us to save money doing the things we love and eliminating the things we don’t love.  Very often we spend money to be social on activities that we don’t really want to do.

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Get a Discount on Your Investments

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Some of us invest in Real Estate and some of invest in Mutual Funds.  However, some of us DINKS love to buy individual Stocks of small companies and big corporations.  If you like to research, trade, buy and sell your own investments then it is a smart financial idea to open a Discount Brokerage Account.

Most financial institutions and investment firms offer a Discount Brokerage Service for self serve investors. A Discount Broker Account is a cost efficient way to buy currencies, precious metals, stocks, and bonds for investors who prefer to place their own trades by internet or by telephone.

Discount Brokerage Accounts allow us to purchase bonds directly on the market, as well as exchange our money directly into foreign currencies as well as purchase shares of stock in a company.  One thing that we should never buy in our Discount Broker Account is Mutual Funds.

It is not a good idea to buy Mutual Funds in a Discount Brokerage Account because of the additional transaction costs associated with Discount Brokers.  Financial Institutions offer Mutual Funds with No Loads.  This means they do not charge a Front End Load when we purchase our Mutual Funds, or a Back End Load when we sell our Mutual Funds.  Both Front End and Back End Loads are usually 2% of the total amount of our transaction.  Sometimes Back End Loads, also known as Trailer Fees, can be a progressive percentage that decreases over time with no Back End Load being charged if we hold our Mutual Funds for 7 years.

New Investors and Knowledgeable Investors usually choose to invest in Discount Broker Accounts because the transaction fees are lower than Full Service Broker Accounts. When we invest in a Full Service Broker Account our Investment Broker trades on our behalf and actively manages our money.  Investment Brokers are paid by their clients, and therefore they charge each client 1% to 4% of their total investment portfolio in annual account fees.

We have to be aware of trading fees and annual fees associated with Discount Broker Accounts. Discount Brokerage Services are less expensive than Full Service Brokerage Services, but there are still fees involved.  We may have an annual fee in our Discount Broker Account if our total investment holdings are less than a certain amount, usually $25,000.  Each transaction in our Discount Broker Account can cost $19.99 to $24.99.  The great thing about Discount Brokerage Account is the more we trade, the more we save.  For active traders transaction fees can be as low as $6.99.

If you like to buy stocks and you don’t need the advice of an investment professional then get a discount on your investments and open a Discount Brokerage Account.

 

The Royal Cost of a Royal Wedding

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white wedding dressLast week millions of people watched while Prince William married his long time girlfriend Kate Middleton in a ceremony that cost millions of dollars. Kate Middleton is now officially royalty…whatever that means.

Would you like to have a Royal Wedding?

For some women their wedding day is the happiest day of their lives, and they want the fantasy fairytale wedding with the big dress and the big cake with the big guest list.  But for some other women their wedding day is about spending the rest of their lives with the person they love; it’s about the ceremony, not the spectacle.  If having a big Royal Wedding is your dream, you have to keep in mind that money often comes with strings attached.

The Royal Wedding was definitely not Kate and William’s day.  They were told where to stand, what to wear, and when to wave.  Although my mother did tell me that Kate was “allowed” to design her own dress, I’m sure that her Majesty the Queen had the final say.

The cost of a Royal Wedding

Everyone from MSN to CNN reported on the glamour and glitz of the royal wedding.  I personally find the cost of the royal wedding to be totally outrageous.  Just because we have money, doesn’t mean that we have to spend it.  I also don’t think it’s a good financial idea to spend a lot of money on something that isn’t even what we want.  The Royal family spent money on a Royal Wedding only because they are the “Royals”.  It is also important to note that the British people indirectly paid for the Royal Wedding through their taxes.  I am sure that tax payer money could have been spent on better amenities such as health care and other public services.

CNN reported that the British Royal Wedding ceremony cost $32 million.  This was compared with the US “Royal” Wedding of Chelsea Clinton which cost (only) $3.3 million.  The average US Wedding costs approximately $27,000.  We know from previous DINKS Finance posts that bridal shower gifts can be expensive; but most of us spent a lot less than $27,000 on our own weddings.

Let’s look at some of the other costs of the British Royal Wedding and Chelsea Clintons wedding compared to the average cost of a Wedding in the United States:

 

BRITISH ROYALS     CHELSEA CLINTON        AVERAGE US WEDDING

Wedding Cake            $80,000                       $11,000                              $540

Bridal Dress                $434,000                     $25,000                              $1000

Flowers                       $800,000                     $500,000                            $2000

 

What do you give as a gift at a Royal Wedding?

With a guest list full of celebrities, politicians, and world leaders I am curious to know what the young royal couple received as gifts at their Royal Wedding.  I would like to know if they received envelopes full of British pounds and other currencies from around the world. Usually wedding gifts are given to a young couple to help them start their life together off on the right financial foot.  But what do you give as a wedding gift to a young royal couple who doesn’t need anything, and who needs money even less than that?

What can you give to a young royal couple who is living in Buckingham Palace? While we are discussing the royal couples living arrangements, I personally could not imagine being married into a family and the same day moving in with my father and grandmother in law.  What a nightmare!

I would not want my grandmother in law to be the Queen of England. She would always be telling me to wear my hat like this and drink my tea like that…no thank you! I wouldn’t do it for all of the crowns in the world.

Would you like to have a Royal Wedding? If you were a guest at the Royal Wedding what would you give to the young royal couple as a wedding gift?

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Are We Financially Irresponsible?

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Many of us may have the financial goal to pay off our personal debits.  We may have accumulated debt from attending college, getting married, buying a home, or purchasing a new car.  We may also have accumulated debt from a major purchase or excessive spending.  Regardless of how we accumulated our personal debt, does having debt make us financially irresponsible?

Some finance professionals agree that accumulating debt is a sign of financial irresponsibility, but it all depends on how we accumulated that debt.  If we accumulated thousands of dollars in debt because of excessive spending on material goods and other unnecessary items then we are financially irresponsible.  I disagree with this theory.  Sometimes excessive spending is a sign of financial irresponsibility, but sometimes it is because we lack the financial knowledge to know any better.

We should always learn from our mistakes because insanity is often described as performing the same action and expecting a different result.  If we accumulated unnecessary debt when we were younger we will learn from our mistakes and better manage our money when we are older.  This doesn’t make us financially irresponsible because it was a learning experience.

Some people agree that being financially irresponsible is spending and living beyond our financial means.  If our expenses outweigh our income we may be financially irresponsible, or we may be mismanaging our money.  Anytime that we spend money we don’t have I believe that we are being financially irresponsible.  We must learn to cut expenses and live within our fixed income.  If we have a fixed monthly income, then we should also have fixed monthly expenses.

My Dad always says that how we got ourselves into a bad situation is not important because it is in the past.  What is important is how we get ourselves out of the situation, because that will determine our future.  I think that learning how we got into a bad (financial) situation is important so we don’t let it happen again.  However, effectively managing our money and creating a budget along with a financial plan to improve our situation is far more important.  Fixing a bad situation shows financial responsibility.

Think about your financial goals for 2011.  Is one of them to pay off your debt? Now think about why paying off debt is so important to you.  Is it because paying interest on our debt is expensive, or is it because you think that having debt makes you financially irresponsible?

Let’s answer these 4 questions to determine if we think that having debt makes us financially irresponsible:

  1. People who are in debt are usually ______________
  2. I will never go into debt for _____________
  3. I ____________ my debt
  4. I don’t have debt because ____________

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